Why Do Men Choose High Maintenance Women? [Video]

Reader question: “Why do men insist on a hot babe when they know eventually it will all fade and there is no substance left? Why not choose an attractive, but not perfect low maintenance girl who won’t change much about him and has substance?”

 

1. The Psychology
- Even when men are blinded by what they initially get attracted to,it won’t be sustainable without a deeper connection.
- Don’t believe the hype! Don’t buy into the magazines. It’s not truethat men insist on a hot babe. Everywhere you look you will see men with all different types of women, most of them not looking like theyare from a magazine or model shoot.
- Men are extremely diverse in their tastes – there is no one version of ‘hot’.

2. What To Do About It
A. See yourself as a complete package – on any one characteristic youcan fall short of someone else, but as a package you are completely unique.
B. Remember, there is a difference between objective beauty andperceived beauty. With attraction, the latter is all that matters.
C. Perceived beauty is created by a whole range of factors workingtogether in unison, many of which you can control. Work on improving yourself by focusing on the things you can control, not the things youcan’t.

Quick Love Life Happiness Tip
Never compare yourself with someone else. If you want to be trulyhappy, remember that the true success is not what you are born with inlife, it’s who you become and what you do, and this is what trulymakes someone attractive.

Thanks again! Please leave a comment underneath, it would be great toreally get some opinions so that we can all support each other here.

Until next time….

Your coach and friend

Matthew x

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