There is so much to celebrate: Kat60 AND thetababe will have their 50th birthday next year. But also we absolutely need to celebrate all of our general gorgeousness!!!
Please give your suggestions where to meet up in Spring 2010.
I suppose it will take place somewhere in North America. As I am...
So much to celebrate!!!
We need to decide an exact time and a good place, otherwise it will all unravel...
OK I will start a thread under DWD catching up.
No, I am not a Canadian.
Is Santa from Canada? I am under impression he lives in Finland!!! :)
Yes, holidays are hard, it is my first Christmas without a significant other in 20 years. My parents have an exceptionally happy marriage. So does my sister and her husband. It is almost more difficult for them than for me. They simply don't know what to say or think or do and I have to encourage th...
Hi fit4livin,
when I saw the heading of the thread, I thought it would be about properly older generation, like people in their eighties :).
48 really isn't older generation and certainly no excuse for not following DWD. Not because they are some sort of miracle rules, but because it is common...
It is so interesting what you are writing, Robin, my angry ex was a blamer as well. Everyone was to be blamed: his mother, the employer, the colleagues, and of course me. He did not take responsibility for anything. I know SZ doesn't approve of generalisations like that and neither do I, but unfortu...
AUDS, you are the central character on this forum, please please arrange a meeting for next spring. I really like the Toronto idea, but NYC is good as well. I feel like I am related to you or something. :)
SZ, where abouts do you live? I do a lot of travelling because of conferences and stuff, it...
SZ, I completely agree that our styles are fluid.
With my elegant longterm ex it was easy and natural to be assertive, I never even had to think about it;
With my angry ex however who used a very aggressive style, I started off assertive as that was what I was used to, but whatever I did not...
I am so sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time.
My advice is to try and focus on something (e.g. a hobby or volunteering, it doesn't really matter) that is guaranteed to make you feel better. Dating is a funny one and can work both ways (as we all know), so try to choose some...
