Thanks Cucumber...I agree..the Ex is a huge skeleton and I don't think he even realizes it.
He does reflect a lot on his past (don't we all now in middle age) and he cried in front of me about it...the kids, his life, that he did not prepare for this time in his life.
So we both are looking fo...
Thank you MissyMinx
I believe that he and I ARE good friends. We met on line and we both immediately took our profiles down. Neither one of us has wanted to go back there!
Our relationship did take on being friends as that is very important to me. As we age, we need our significant other to be...
Thank you for your input Azoth..it's so confusing. Funny thing, my mother AND father told me now to stick it out and drop the subject with him all the while watching to be sure that I won't be hurt again.
You're right...he does EVERYTHING a man would do if he loves a woman, but he has no idea that...
I've posted before about my b/f of 6 months. We've been completely exclusive, and have had an AWESOME relationship. He calls everyday, I've met his family, the whole nine yards. He shows affection, does little things for me, looks after me, listens to my issues if I have any, is always there for me....
Hi Margaret..I am exactly like you. I feel love for him very strongly, but no, I have not said the words. I think it would not make him feel the way I want him to feel, but rather pushed to say it before he's ready.
I am TOTALLY insecure wondering if he is tiring of me, or if maybe he just isn't ...
Thanks Auds and Daisy
You are so right...I sometimes get caught up in what other people tell me he 'should' be doing. I love this man to bits and I really am happier with him in my life. My mother said the exact same thing by asking if I am happier without him there? The answer is NO WAY! He is won...
I wish you the best of luck. Don't you just HATE that on edge feeling and it goes right into the pit of your stomach. Yet the strength not to call or text is very enviable. I too will try anything to NOT call, like I'll pick the phone and speak to my daughter or call my son out west...ANYTHING to no...
Oh Bluebunny...you're an angel.
You are spot on when you say non-verbal. Actually this man reminds me very much of my own father, caring, considerate, but not comfortable expressing emotion but rather prefers to show how he feels.
My b/f is very non-verbal about his feelings even when it comes to ...
Thanks BB...yes we are in an exclusive relationship. He is always there for me and has openly said that he is so happy not to be on the 'market' anymore.
I agree about the 'friend' thing because yes, people can go on there and imagine all sorts of things. We are both very private people and I don't...
I have a great guy in my life and I won't deny that. We've been seeing each other for 5 months, now going into our 6th month. We have wonderful times together with no issues. We spend pretty much every weekend together but not so much during the week since my work schedule conflicts a bit with his. ...
