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Age: 24 Location: Ohio Dating Status: Getting over a breakup Member for: 1 year 2 weeks

The ex was pretty happy for

Tue Aug 10 2010 - 09:12 pm Commented in Inspiration Stories : I Could Only Dream... And Dreams Do Come True.

The ex was pretty happy for me. (Surprisingly, as he didn't talk to me for almost 2 months after I decided to break up with him.) He said that all that mattered was that I was happy. But I do have an unfortunate update: the guy that I mentioned in my (now null) inspiration story just broke up with me. Oh well. Maybe I'm not meant to be loved, but I can always hope, right? (I heard again from the ex shortly after I changed my relationship status... more

I Could Only Dream... And Dreams Do Come True.

Tue Jul 27 2010 - 09:17 am Posted in Inspiration Stories

A month and a half ago, I was in a dead-end relationship with a very noncommittal man who would lead me on and "jokingly" say things like "We're done" and "I dunno" to the point where I didn't know whether to take him seriously if he were to say it again. The last time I talked to him was in early June, in which he seemed open to taking things one day at a time. more

I can SO relate to this

Tue Sep 08 2009 - 12:09 pm Commented in Breakups : I was dumped on FB!!!

I can SO relate to this thread. My last boyfriend, who happened around July of last year, decided that he would dump me via Facebook. We had gone on a couple dates, and then he told me he wanted to get to know me better, but when the dates to hang out approached, he'd always make excuses. I know I should've dumped him during the first round of excuses, but I hoped that things would get better.

Nope.

I log on Facebook three weeks later to find that just before he deleted me from... more

I can relate as well. I seem

Sun Sep 06 2009 - 12:20 am Commented in Dating : Have I blown it already or ...... was he just not interested in the first place ...?

I can relate as well. I seem to have this bad habit of overanalyzing a situation I'm in, especially if it's with someone I'm into, whereas I just sit back and relax if I'm not into the person. Funny how reverse psychology works, huh?

Julie offers some good advice, but I would like to add don't wait around for him to return contact, even if you don't contact him for a while. Go out for coffee, go shopping, do something fun you like to do that keeps your mind off him. That way he's left... more