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Have you considered the
Thu Sep 02 2010 - 02:15 pm Commented in Understanding Men : He apologised......now what
Have you considered the possibility of dating men with whom you know with certainty upfront, there is zero potential for a serious relationship? But you can still enjoy going on the date anyway, and just soak in all the attention you receive.
Most men genuinely enjoy being in the company of an attractive and vibrant woman as they love to be around our energy. It makes them feel good. And providing you feel safe enough with the man, and that he behaves appropriately, I... more
And apart from his ex
Thu Sep 02 2010 - 01:50 pm Commented in Understanding Men : Updated - Overcommunication and Uncertainty
And apart from his ex girlfriend who cheated on him, he has not slept with anyone in that two years?
To me, it sounds like you've
Thu Sep 02 2010 - 01:46 pm Commented in Understanding Men : He said he wanted this...to keep trying trying this...so why does he change his mind??
To me, it sounds like you've been doing too much initiating. Telling him you'd like more contact, asking him to stay in touch by phone, telling him you'd like to meet his girls... Whoa! Have you considered that all this action and interest on your part has made him feel under pressure?
I feel his words to you that he doesn't want so much intensity, really need to be heeded. This is the time to back off, not gallop towards the finish line!
I know it can then be confusing when a... more
Or - the alternative, wait
Thu Sep 02 2010 - 01:21 pm Commented in Understanding Men : Updated - Overcommunication and Uncertainty
Or - the alternative, wait for him to bring up the issue of testing. It sounds like he's keen as mustard, and therefore highly likely he'll want to do everything possible to make you feel secure and happy about sleeping with him.
Just as a matter of interest, why is it you don't like the pill? I know it's not for everyone, but personally, I find it such an ease.
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Yes, a test is called for
Yes, a test is called for that's for sure. The question is - how to raise it. I still vote for waiting for him to raise it (again). It's likely he will.
Next time you're getting down and cosy, and it looks as if sex could be on the cards, you could just stop him and say, "you know I really want to do this, but I gotta admit, I'm feeling a bit funny about the fact we both haven't been tested yet".
If he says something about the fact he was tested two years ago, then... more