Hi there Tallartist, and welcome! Oh boy, do I ever relate to your sentiments! You've described it so well! It's so easy to become discouraged when you're a good woman, and yet you face beating down a constant supply of "non suitables". What helps me when I become discouraged is reviewing my daily g...
I'm just curious why you believe he's loyal when he's kissing another girl and yet expressing strong interest in you at the same time?
I know you like him, and obviously there's some interest there as well when he sees you, but he obviously has other irons in the fire. I would suggest you hang ba...
Yes, it's exhausting all this emotional energy isn't it? I can relate to how you must feel. Please do as you feel you must. That sounds a good idea to send the letter and then just let the cards fall as they must. It's not so much the actual money at this point but it's the principle of the thing. I...
You are still letting him control the proess TTT. This forces you into the weaker role of waiting for him to take action. Instead, I'd rather see you take a firmer line. Just because you send him a letter does not make binding as he could say he never agreed, and also he never received the letter. B...
JC, your post states how you feel, but where does your BF stand in all this? If he has the required stamina and guts to go against his religion and his family/culture, then yes, you might stand a chance at this developing into long term. However, he'd have to be awfully strong, and very in love with...
I can really sympathise with your frustration Leonor. It's natural I think to start asking yourself if you're somehow at fault. I am going through this same thing at present also as I seem to have had a rash of married men hitting on me recently.
Whilst it's good to always take a look at yourself...
Yes, thanks SM, I had overlooked that. My apologies Lyrior.
Truly I don't know why this man was bought into your life Kayelle. I do believe though that people come into your life for a reason. Sometimes it's not until months or even years later you appreciate the reason why they were there in your life for a time. I'm sure in time you will come to an underst...
OK, so has he been in long term relationships with women before? Because that to me would provide some sort of evidence he's capable of committment (to a woman at least).
Also, have you covered off the sex health check thing yet?
Yes, that was a curve ball I must admit! A really big curvy one! I guess my only question is - were you being honest when he asked if you had any objections?
