I know it seems like a Catch-22.
If men are always telling us what we need to hear in order to get what they want, how can we believe anything they say at all.
Remember that for a good chunk of the time, a lot of what guys say is worth a pile of cow dung. I know so many guys who just spout ...
Leonor,
I don't have as much of a problem with meeting gross guys at social functions, but I don't have that many guys approaching me lately at social functions. Come to think of it, most of my social functions are with my theater company or work, and I don't mix business and pleasure, so there...
Stacy,
Read again what you wrote, a quote from him:
"I, for some reason, unable to accomplish that, and only see you as in physical encounters..."
There it is in black and white. He does not want to do things together with you, including "going out," "watching movies," or "having fun as a...
Yes, bars are usually bad places to meet people. But my parents met in a bar, and I met my last ex of four years in a bar. But those were both bars in Chicago. So it does happen...but probably not at bars in Hollywood. ;)
Yes, but sometimes you can do absolutely nothing and still have jerky guys approach you. I outlined this in another forum, but I can just walk into any bar, dressed very casual/conservative, and the lowest of the lowest, nasty guys in there will all start approaching me. Ugly, rude, stupid, someti...
I thought you might respond right away, Curly, because I know how you feel on this subject!
I'm all for 50/50 eventually. I don't think guys should always have to pay. But on the first couple of dates, I think they should make the effort to pay. Every guy I have been out with who didn't pay on...
I can't believe he said "I like your personality and your body" and that thinking about you turns him on. That is so jerky. Even in his breakup letter he has to mention how he wants to have sex with you?
Ugh.
At least you have your answer and you know your intuition was right now. I think ...
Congrats, PG, on having the courage to follow your heart and recognize that you were not being treated like you should. Now go out there and find a man who will!
Yes, and I think that men would do well to realize the huge amount of players and losers we women have to sift through. If they're cool with paying for at least the first couple of dates, then that will put them ahead of the pack, and demonstrate their interest.
Call me old-fashioned, but if a ...
