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Age: 30 Location: Los Angeles, CA Dating Status: Single/Dating Member for: 1 year 15 weeks

Don't call him. BUT If you

Thu Sep 02 2010 - 04:11 am Commented in Understanding Men : WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW??

Don't call him.

BUT

If you talk to him again, I think you are 100% justified in asking him what's up. You don't need to initiate a "Talk." You can simply say, "Hey, haven't heard from you in a bit. Anything going on in your life?" or something like that.

What it probably is...is that you guys were getting into relationship-mode and he doesn't want a relationship. So he backs way the hell off so that you don't... more

Very sound advice from EJ.

Wed Sep 01 2010 - 03:13 am Commented in Dating : Regaining my foothold after a mistake

Very sound advice from EJ. That is so true what you say. Men never apologize for these things.

Another case in point (kinda funny.) I am a massage therapist. When I'm working, women will always apologize for having even one hair on their legs. I hear everything from "I've just been so busy, I couldn't shave," to "I'm from out of town and forgot to bring a razor" to "I've been wearing pants a lot lately and just haven't wanted to... more

Yes, that is the $20,000

Wed Sep 01 2010 - 02:42 am Commented in Dating : Guy meets girl, goes on date, keeps in touch, and then stops? What? Help!

Yes, that is the $20,000 question. Why did he disappear? I guarantee you every single woman on this forum has dealt with a man who just up and poofed and disappeared without explanation.

Many men are cowards and would rather just cut and run rather than face the music, or risk seeing you hurt and crying and know that they are the cause. I'm not a male-hater at all. It's just the truth. I bet you can ask most guys you know and they will tell you that... more

Thank you for the

Tue Aug 31 2010 - 06:08 pm Commented in Dating : Is all of this really worth it? I mean, really??!

Thank you for the inspirational story, Kat. :) Good to know that there are good eggs out there. I know there are, it's just the weeding through that is difficult. It amazes me how anything gets done in this world when there are so many people who are so messed up. And it amazes me how thousands of people around the world get married every day...when there are so many crackpots out there. Maybe I'm a bit jaded being in Southern California, which is like an... more

Remember in the movie "Pretty

Mon Aug 30 2010 - 05:42 am Commented in Understanding Men : What does this mean?

Remember in the movie "Pretty Woman"---the prostitutes are instructed not to kiss the guys they're with, because kissing is more intimate than sex.

I think that's kind of insane, but some people really do operate this way--that kissing is much more emotionally intense and sex is more emotionless.

That would be a big problem for me if a guy I was seeing for 2 months turned his head every time I went to kiss him. Have you asked him why he does... more

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Inspiration Story:

"...I was married for thirty years and then replaced by a woman two years older than my daughter (Yikes and Yuck!).

I tried your "1/3/1 second glance" technique with a man going in the opposite direction and he beamed at me and tripped! I went into a store and a man walked towards me..."