Hi Girls,
Sorry I haven't written but my computer has been down and Im using the one at school right now. No I didn't go to the brunch cuz I was too tired but I did go to other christmas parties and of course he was there and of course i fell off the wagon. Again. the guy makes me lose my brea...
Hi girls!!!!!
Sunshine, I didn't think you were ignoring me. Don't worry!! So you've been in your situation as long as I've been in mine. Why do we let it drag on for so long???????????? I know there are plenty of attractive men out there, but I seem to be stuck on this one. OMG, I need to g...
Trust me, I know how you feel. (going crazy) Been there. But the good news is, the longer you keep NC, the easier it gets. I would wait it out. When a man wants to be with a woman, he finds a way. Especially if he knows she wants to be with him, too. Its hard to accept if it turns out that yo...
stayaway,
Get busy! Stop sitting around thinking about him. Go to the gym or out with some friends. Wait for him to contact you. That way you won't seem desperate. Let him chase you, remember? Its your precious time, Goddess. He has to earn you spending time with him. Let him wonder wha...
by someone who has challenged you... in which way? They turned you down for a date, or refused to give their number? Or made the guy wait 2 months before sleeping with him? In which way was this person a challenge? Just wondering?
wibl,
Don't beat yourself up for falling off the NC wagon. At least you didn't sleep with him. Just keep taking it one day at a time. Its a hard lesson to learn to maintain NC especially when they lay on the charm, but... it has to be done. Be strong!!!!!! You want the pie, not the crumbs, ...
whatif,
What does your gut tell you to do? Well, whatever it tells u, do the opposite. Remember your in the beginning stages with newbie!!!!!!!!!!! LOL. Hope it works out!!!
SB,
I actually felt a pang in my heart when I read your thread. I'm so sorry for your sadness. Time will heal your wounds. Until then cry, get it out of your system. You know you can count on us to listen.
Raichelraichel,
How long have ya'll been dating?
