he cries a lot doesn't he?
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- Mon Mar 15 2010 - 10:18 pm
You need to get some
You need to get some perspective here. Its only been 3 weeks for Heaven's sakes. What do you really know about this guy?
If this project is a life and death thing for him then he really shouldn't be getting into a relationship. It sounds like you are a massive distraction for him.
After 3...
Mon Mar 15 2010 - 07:27 pmWhat Misty said, yes yes
What Misty said, yes yes yes.
Have you read "why men love bitches?" That book explains the whole principle. But if you haven't here is a little example
I have told this before so if you have heard it, sorry.
This came in one of Mimi Tanner's newsletters...paraphrasing:
Imagine you are ...
Mon Mar 15 2010 - 06:59 pmMisty, I would rather hear
Misty, I would rather hear the cold hard truth than a bunch of sugar coated bs.
It may sting for the moment, but if the intention is to help the person, then help them.
Mon Mar 15 2010 - 05:50 pmI think you should just take
I think you should just take the space and run with it unless you have a valid reason to think he would not approve.
Julie has a point about the importance of communication, but if you look at your #3 post--you aren't thinking of making any major changes. Why should he care if you want to take a...
Mon Mar 15 2010 - 04:32 pmWhat kinds of things does he
What kinds of things does he say to you? If he is really being offensive can your bf ask him not to be a jerk and to treat his girlfriend with a semblance of respect?
Mon Mar 15 2010 - 04:29 pmYou aren't talking about
You aren't talking about breaking up are you? Because if you tell him you need a break he may take that to mean you aren't happy and want to BREAK UP
I do understand the need for time to yourself - which is healthy btw.
Why not make a physical list of the things you want to do and figure out so...Mon Mar 15 2010 - 02:37 pmOK now I need a cold
OK now I need a cold shower.
where is Wise when we need her?
Mon Mar 15 2010 - 01:59 pmI am about 20 years older
I am about 20 years older than you but I get more attention now than I did when I was younger. I didn't get so much as the right time of day from guys when I was 29. Mind you I was an emotional train wreck then, but hey.
Mon Mar 15 2010 - 01:57 pmWell said Cuc. It is about
Well said Cuc. It is about the power of personal choice.
I choose to do blah..
I choose not to do so and so....
It is a matter of knowing your own boundaries and being true to yourself.
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