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thetababe

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Fri Nov 20 2009 - 05:22 pm

Are you a fellow Canadian

Are you a fellow Canadian Wise? If so where?

Anyway I would like to take this time to wish all our American Goddesses a very happy Thanksgiving, since we are on the subject of Holidays

Fri Nov 20 2009 - 04:19 pm

hoo boy...where to begin. LG,

hoo boy...where to begin.

LG, you sound like a rescuer. Difference in background to me means different religious, socio-economic or racial differences. I don't want to judge this man because I don't know him of course. He may be a good guy, but he is scarred emotionally and physically. You ar...

Fri Nov 20 2009 - 04:01 pm

Asking a guy out on any

Asking a guy out on any pretext is a dicey proposition at the best of times and rarely works the way you want it too.

I agree with the above posts ESPECIALLY if he knows you like him. He won't buy the Just Friends line for a second, and you will look foolish pushy and desparate

Fri Nov 20 2009 - 01:57 pm

When you don't have as much

When you don't have as much invested in a guy, you come across differently than when you do.

It is easier to be your fabulous self when you are not too attached to the outcome. When you like a guy that changes.

It is a very common thing; the ones you don't want are the ones in hot pursuit. T...

Fri Nov 20 2009 - 01:48 pm

Being a single Goddess during the Holidays

Hello Goddesses,
Well, the Holiday season is on us again. I was so busy with my fablulous :) life that I really didn't notice.

I have a play going on, I am trying to plan a trip for my 50th birthday in March, I am going to auditions as much as I can. I sing karaoke on the weekends. I am putti...

Fri Nov 20 2009 - 12:39 pm

Good for you Sweetie. I am

Good for you Sweetie. I am always amazed at how one's outlook can change from the beginning of a thread to the end when you have 50 pairs of eyes from total strangers all over the world looking at your problem.

Good luck and keep us posted.

Fri Nov 20 2009 - 12:35 pm

He likes you but he is not

He likes you but he is not ready. Take it at face value and move on. It is not like you have a whole lot invested in this guy.

Maybe he is just getting out of an intense relationship and not ready to move on. If that is the case, it is what it is. If he wants to chat you up on FB fine, but do...

Fri Nov 20 2009 - 12:22 pm

Guys don't always have the

Guys don't always have the communication skills we wish them to. While yes, I would expect a guy to call and text if he is interested, maybe this guy is just on his own timetable.

If you are curious then ask him why he does not call or text between dates. If you are just curious and not demandi...

Fri Nov 20 2009 - 12:03 pm

Not exclusive--after one

Not exclusive--after one whole month? What is the rush?

Slow down. You just met. You have had maybe what, 4 dates? It is completely unrealistic to demand that he decide these things after you have known each other for a matter of hours. You are just getting to know one another and he obviousl...

Fri Nov 20 2009 - 11:12 am

Fab, I am in exactly the same

Fab, I am in exactly the same boat as you. I am finishing off a temp assignment which ends next week...maybe. I hope I will get another assignment but the money? who knows. I am getting $13/hour at my current position. I am working full time hours. I remember when that was good money, but I am ...

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