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thetababe

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Tue Mar 16 2010 - 10:00 am

he cries a lot doesn't he?

he cries a lot doesn't he?

Mon Mar 15 2010 - 10:18 pm

You need to get some

You need to get some perspective here. Its only been 3 weeks for Heaven's sakes. What do you really know about this guy?

If this project is a life and death thing for him then he really shouldn't be getting into a relationship. It sounds like you are a massive distraction for him.

After 3...

Mon Mar 15 2010 - 07:27 pm

What Misty said, yes yes

What Misty said, yes yes yes.

Have you read "why men love bitches?" That book explains the whole principle. But if you haven't here is a little example

I have told this before so if you have heard it, sorry.

This came in one of Mimi Tanner's newsletters...paraphrasing:

Imagine you are ...

Mon Mar 15 2010 - 06:59 pm

Misty, I would rather hear

Misty, I would rather hear the cold hard truth than a bunch of sugar coated bs.

It may sting for the moment, but if the intention is to help the person, then help them.

Mon Mar 15 2010 - 05:50 pm

I think you should just take

I think you should just take the space and run with it unless you have a valid reason to think he would not approve.

Julie has a point about the importance of communication, but if you look at your #3 post--you aren't thinking of making any major changes. Why should he care if you want to take a...

Mon Mar 15 2010 - 04:32 pm

What kinds of things does he

What kinds of things does he say to you? If he is really being offensive can your bf ask him not to be a jerk and to treat his girlfriend with a semblance of respect?

Mon Mar 15 2010 - 04:29 pm

You aren't talking about

You aren't talking about breaking up are you? Because if you tell him you need a break he may take that to mean you aren't happy and want to BREAK UP

I do understand the need for time to yourself - which is healthy btw.
Why not make a physical list of the things you want to do and figure out so...

Mon Mar 15 2010 - 02:37 pm

OK now I need a cold

OK now I need a cold shower.

where is Wise when we need her?

Mon Mar 15 2010 - 01:59 pm

I am about 20 years older

I am about 20 years older than you but I get more attention now than I did when I was younger. I didn't get so much as the right time of day from guys when I was 29. Mind you I was an emotional train wreck then, but hey.

Mon Mar 15 2010 - 01:57 pm

Well said Cuc. It is about

Well said Cuc. It is about the power of personal choice.

I choose to do blah..

I choose not to do so and so....

It is a matter of knowing your own boundaries and being true to yourself.

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