I think Dr. Phil (correct me if I am wrong on that) said something like if you have more than 3 non-negotiables  you are being too picky.  

Do you agree and how would you pick just 3

To me if I could ONLY have 3 and everything else is just a bonus, I would choose

• physical attractiveness - I don't require a Greek God but he should be someone who revs my motor.  AKA Physical Chemistry
• Emotional stability - This would cover things like...  more

 short answer - yes.  This is his issue and I know it sucks that he is being all pissy when you are home and want to spend some quality time with him.  Maybe he can't take the LDR nature of the relationship.

I am sure there are guys in the armed forces who have wives and girlfriends that have to put up with them traveling and being gone for weeks at a time.  Do the guys do when and if their +1's throw a hissy fit?  When was the last time a guy had to choose...  more