It just means that your guy must be some kind of saint! (the implication being that Xhris would have done a runner already, because he thinks you talk too obtusely)
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- Mon Feb 15 2010 - 04:28 am
I'm with the boys on this
I'm with the boys on this one. JUST talk direct. Your guy asked you to be direct with him, so tell him whatever it is that's bothering you. If you can't hash it out after 1 year and 4 months, do you really want to bumble along for years??? Tell him you love him, 'cause it sounds to me like that's wh...
Thu Feb 04 2010 - 06:18 amBy the way, your post #5
By the way, your post #5 completely describes an experience I had with a separated man (F.). Our night together meant more to me than it meant to him, so I told him I wouldn't sleep with him again since he wasn't ready for a relationship. Like you, I went into it with my eyes open, not expecting to ...
Thu Feb 04 2010 - 06:05 amStay away, Mystic's advice
Stay away,
Mystic's advice was "so what I would suggest is enjoy this time if it is what you want, but at the first sign os him pulling back then you pull back more."
Don't immediately assume that this guy is out of your life forever. He is pulling back because he wants to be sure he is making...
Wed Feb 03 2010 - 09:18 amMy guess is he might be shy
My guess is he might be shy and just doesn't have a lot of experience with women. Doesn't mean he doesn't want to have a longer relationship. I'd go with the flow and see how you feel around him.
Sun Jan 31 2010 - 04:35 pmI was looking to the DWD
I was looking to the DWD divas here to support me in walking away from someone when I clearly stated my needs & they weren't met!
It sounds like you aren't really asking for advice. You have already made a decision, and you certainly have more information than any of us reading about your deci...
Wed Jan 27 2010 - 09:27 amI'm having a hard time
I'm having a hard time working out whether he's full on committed or not. How do you tell the difference?
If you are having to even ask the question after 18 months together, he is not full on committed.
Just my opinion.
Mon Jan 18 2010 - 06:21 amIt seems to me that he's
It seems to me that he's improvising in order to drag things out...that it is the chase that gives the thrills (for you both). Just take care, in case there never is a meeting, or if the meeting is a huge disappointment.
Although I would like to add (also from my own experience), that you will pr...
Fri Jan 15 2010 - 08:06 amIf you're ok with it being
If you're ok with it being casual, then you can go with the flow. My guess is that he is not ready for making long-term plans. He's coming out of a long-term relationship and enjoys his time with you. Don't fool yourself that there's more to it. Enjoy as long as you're ok with him possibly not knowi...
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