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BTW, men can't mind-read.
BTW, men can't mind-read.
I'm with the boys on this
I'm with the boys on this one. JUST talk direct. Your guy asked you to be direct with him, so tell him whatever it is that's bothering you. If you can't hash it out after 1 year and 4 months, do you really want to bumble along for years??? Tell him you love him, 'cause it sounds to me like that's what he's waiting for :-)
By the way, your post #5
By the way, your post #5 completely describes an experience I had with a separated man (F.). Our night together meant more to me than it meant to him, so I told him I wouldn't sleep with him again since he wasn't ready for a relationship. Like you, I went into it with my eyes open, not expecting to want more than a casual affair, but I realised my boundaries.
At the end of the day, he is the loser for not being able to step up. I went on to meet another guy, without issues, who I am... more
Stay away, Mystic's advice
Stay away,
Mystic's advice was "so what I would suggest is enjoy this time if it is what you want, but at the first sign os him pulling back then you pull back more."
Don't immediately assume that this guy is out of your life forever. He is pulling back because he wants to be sure he is making the right decision before going forward with you. You have to let him experience what life is like without you, so his missing you will drive him back. Of course, he may decide otherwise,... more
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It just means that your guy
It just means that your guy must be some kind of saint! (the implication being that Xhris would have done a runner already, because he thinks you talk too obtusely)