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Nothing Vein about that
Fri Sep 03 2010 - 04:51 am Commented in Breakups : 16 Warning Signs Your Commitment-Phobic Wants Out
Nothing Vein about that SP...If anything it is good to see that his behaviour has not knocked your confidence. If he is insecure and trys to put it on you, then good on you for showing him you are better off without him. I personally would feel insulted if I was asked to take an AIDS test, it's different if you were single & very active with different men, but not when you are in a relationship. Good on you for acknowledging your good points, it's not always easy after a break up. Some... more
Hi river, thank you for the
Fri Sep 03 2010 - 04:37 am Commented in Relationships : Is anyone's Low Self-esteem ruining their relationship
Hi river, thank you for the great advice, as I said to SZ, you have all been a big help, just helping recognise some of what I am feeling, has already lifted a huge weight off of me.
I will definatly try the "frame of mind part" I would like to work on my needy behaviour, I can imagine it is so not attractive. But I do think getting some further help will benefit me, I had jumped too soon when we got back together, when I needed to work on my emotions and trust. I just hope... more
Thank you SZ, I think you are
Fri Sep 03 2010 - 04:28 am Commented in Relationships : Is anyone's Low Self-esteem ruining their relationship
Thank you SZ, I think you are right with the trust issue, I try to jump before I can walk with a lot things, which in this case wasn't the right thing to do. Instead of allowing myself to rebuild slowly after the incident, I assumed we could pick up from where we left off. It's a shame to realise a year later when I could of blown it all together.
If I tried to work this out in my head with out seeking advice from you all, I would probably still be driving myself loopy. Thank... more
Does any one know of women
Thu Sep 02 2010 - 11:09 am Commented in Breakups : 16 Warning Signs Your Commitment-Phobic Wants Out
Does any one know of women who are CP's? I did start to notice a pattern in my past relationship's...I use to worry in case they ever asked me to get engaged, I think the worry came because I never knew what I wanted. I don't feel it in this relationship, because I made the commitment to live with him, but I just wondered if anyone one has gone through this or is still like it, does it ever pass? It's interesting to know!!!
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Thanks SZ, I have tried to
Thanks SZ, I have tried to find the words to tell him how I am feeling and explain my behaviour, but the time and situation just don't feel right. I just can't see things working out how I hoped for some reason, I get the feeling the relationship had run it's course sadly.
I am glad things are much better for you, the projector is certainly a good way to get through them awkward feelings. Shame I didn't pick up on that sooner. I do hope your partners situation improves at work, I... more