Dear StrongEnough & EbonneJones,
Thank you both for your last comments posted. I have spent a great deal of time praying about this and obviously waiting on him to change, which will never happen. He refuses to take responsibility and only validates his actions with blaming me.
Last night ...
Hello, Smiler101!
Thank you for the suggestions. I like your idea of the compromise, however he is quite volatile when it comes to discussing anything that is wrong. As I mentioned, he'd rather act like everything is great and not discuss arguments and/or hurtful things said. When I tell him t...
I should also mention that I live in a small town and the one time we broke up before, it was as if I'd committed the worst crime ever. He has an amazing ability to be everyone's best friend and an absolute charmer. No one believed any of what I said as far as his abuse and mistreatment.
I've been dating this guy for two years now. We've known one another for a little over three. In the two years we've been together we've had what my friends/family called "growing pains". He's 37 and never been married. He is very set in his ways and selfish with a lot of things. It's always his...
