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Dear StrongEnough &

Tue Sep 29 2009 - 09:01 am Commented in Is He The One? : Abuse and Pregnancy

Dear StrongEnough & EbonneJones,

Thank you both for your last comments posted. I have spent a great deal of time praying about this and obviously waiting on him to change, which will never happen. He refuses to take responsibility and only validates his actions with blaming me.

Last night we had another discussion that he quickly turned into an argument and session of extreme verbal abuse. I went to bed in tears. I have decided that as soon as I find a home for my 2... more

Hello, Smiler101! Thank you

Tue Sep 22 2009 - 12:34 pm Commented in Is He The One? : Abuse and Pregnancy

Hello, Smiler101!

Thank you for the suggestions. I like your idea of the compromise, however he is quite volatile when it comes to discussing anything that is wrong. As I mentioned, he'd rather act like everything is great and not discuss arguments and/or hurtful things said. When I tell him that he hurts me with the things he says and I'm considering moving out and giving us space he'll either fly off the handle and say "then pack up your s*** and get out" or he'll say "we'll work... more

I should also mention that I

Tue Sep 22 2009 - 10:29 am Commented in Is He The One? : Abuse and Pregnancy

I should also mention that I live in a small town and the one time we broke up before, it was as if I'd committed the worst crime ever. He has an amazing ability to be everyone's best friend and an absolute charmer. No one believed any of what I said as far as his abuse and mistreatment.

Abuse and Pregnancy

Tue Sep 22 2009 - 10:21 am Posted in Is He The One?

I've been dating this guy for two years now. We've known one another for a little over three. In the two years we've been together we've had what my friends/family called "growing pains". He's 37 and never been married. He is very set in his ways and selfish with a lot of things. It's always his time table and his way. In addition to the selfishness, he is one to be very verbally abusive when he is tired, hungry or stressed out! We've attended counseling and I thought at the time worked through a lot of our struggles. In fact we'd discussed marriage. more

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