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Dear Marwa234 I will give you

Tue Apr 28 2009 - 01:23 am Commented in Dating : first date and i slept with him?

Dear Marwa234
I will give you a simple male perspective answer to your question. You set the pace when you agreed to have sex with him after such a short time. He may or may not have been expecting to get laid, but since he did, he has categorized you as easy. There is nothing that you can do now to change this. It's ancient history. Forget him and move on. The more you try to chase him, the further he will run away. If he shows up again some day with a grin on his face, you will know... more

Hey Alli, Here is a male

Sat Apr 25 2009 - 04:37 am Commented in Understanding Men : Why won't he do displays of affection?

Hey Alli,
Here is a male perspective. Listen to what Soulmate has to say. She has hit the nail quite squarely and directly. Very eloquently as well, I might add! When I read your post, I see a couple issues which glaringly stand out. He lied about his age. He lied? HE LIED? About his age? Slam on the brakes! He misrepresented himself and deceived you over something as trivial as his age. Don't be deluded into thinking that you can trust this guy. The second issue is this. He wants to... more

Hello Rach, I have a

Sat Apr 25 2009 - 03:54 am Commented in Understanding Men : SOS immediate response

Hello Rach,
I have a suggestion for you from a man's perspective. You say that your goal is to get married. Tuck that notion away somewhere out of sight for the time being. Men can smell the marriage signal from a mile away. It usually sends them running for the hinter hills with nary a backwards glance. This will seriously limit your potential prospects, some of whom might ultimately entertain the idea of marriage. You need to concentrate on first finding the guy whom you deserve.... more

My dear Meesh, Let me give

Sat Apr 25 2009 - 03:22 am Commented in Understanding Men : My Head Is Just Spinning!!!!

My dear Meesh,
Let me give you a simple man's perspective. This guy is a weakling who is looking for a surrogate mother to kiss his booboos and wipe his tears (and perhaps wipe his ass too.) Trust me on this one. You will never have a meaningful relationship, unless you are satisfied to play the mommy role for his sake. You can do better than this. Dump him and move on. I apologize for being so blunt, but you are building up unfulfillable expectations. He is using you, and he will... more

Hello Jessikamckay As I have

Sat Apr 25 2009 - 02:44 am Commented in Understanding Men : suggestions any one?

Hello Jessikamckay
As I have made no secret of the fact that I am a man, I will give you my interpretation from such perspective. This guy has committed a cardinal sin, by bragging about his perceived conquest. Real men will not do this, out of proper respect and courtesy to the woman. He is trying to build up his self image in the sight of his peers. This is a clear indication that he lacks any fundamental self esteem. The fact that he treats you radically differently from one social... more

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