OMG! That is so timely. I did something similar last night as well, but you said it better.
I came to realise that I needed to let go of control of things I cannot change. I'm going to copy and paste that into my diary, if thats ok, because it is so profound to me.
Thank you
Its, he is definately cracking.....but just not sure how to initiate contact again. Hence, going back to the "old" ways eg hmmmmmhmmmmm. Hang in there....and watch the crack get bigger and bigger! Im really happy for you!
What if he says "youre too good for me"? Is that the same as "you deserve better"?
Smerk, thank you so much. I am so so aware of what is happening is so so wrong. You have pinned it down - I am vulnerable. I think he truly wants to "fix" me (not sexually, though) as it is something he mentions a bit - that he has had a "dramatic" impact in how I feel at the moment about myself. I ...
Strong, thanks for your comments. I appreciate your bluntness and its probably what I needed to hear.
I have been telling myself lately, if he leaves her for me, he would probably do the same to me.
Yep, I think I need some more time to work on my self respect.
Thanks for your imput K203. I am aware that this is the wrong thing to do, and he is aware of it as well, hence the "rewarding bad behaviour" comment. At the moment, I am putting aside the right and wrong of this liaison, as it is a separate topic of discussion, in order to find out how his mind is ...
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I'm currently seeing a guy who is showing all the signs of being very very interested. He texts me every morning, calls me every day and also goes online on the nights I don't see him. He is very attentive, tells me I'm pretty, beautiful, etc, enjoys my company, loves talking to me and lo...
Darlin, you are right in the first statement. Yes, the boost has been with me the whole day. I feel awesome!!
I took it away from myself when he walked out. During our marriage, I was always confident and knew I was special. But when he left, my self-doubt came back in a big way. Actually, just r...
Wow!! I must be displaying or projecting Goddess behaviour and not realising it.
I just had an elderly guy come up to me that I have never spoken to or seen before and he asked me if I was married. When I said no, he said "what is an attractive woman like you doing single?" I said that I had recen...
I never ask about previous relationships. And because of this, I find that they open up and tell you anyway when they are ready.
For me, I don't need to know about past relationships. Its what I have with him now that is important.
