Thu Nov 12 2009 - 01:17 pm Posted in
Breakups
I was dating what I thought was a great guy for 10 months. I suppose you could call him a rebound. I had just been dumped by another guy after a 7 month relationship and my self esteem was at zero. I met the new guy on line. His profile stated that he was separated. He explained that the only reason he hadn't gotten a divorce was for financial reasons. We were exclusive from the beginning. There were little things that irritated me but I decided that as the relationship grew those would go away. After 8 months, I decided it was time to have "The Talk". more
Thanks Audrey and Hopeful1,
Thanks Audrey and Hopeful1, your advice is greatly appreciated. At times, I miss him and my heart aches but not as bad as the boyfriend before him. I think(?) I could play golf with him without any problem. As for him, I don't know how he will act but I suspect that it is his way of keeping me in his life.
The last week we did our discussions by email (his idea). The last email I told him why I couldn't continue a relationship and ended it by telling him not to send anymore emails,... more