thanks for you advice. What I really mention to him about the kids was that I basically said that I want my childern to grow with guidance of theirr religion by doing that I need to be a good role modal and so does my husband. after this he asked me if at the moment my ex and are able to give them that guidence since my childern spend 50% of the time with me and the other half with their father. What is annoying is that is that the consistency with his words that he said he want to give it a...  more