Wow, your situation has a lot of similarities to mine although we've just been seeing each other for a few months. My guy is hot and cold too. Most recently saw him last weekend, had a good time, talked about some issues like his making plans with me then constantly breaking them. He texted the next day, we had a nice phone conversation the following day, he texted late the next night saying it was probably too late to talk and that he'd talk to me the following day. That was four days...  more