Ok Girls , Now that he called and told me he figured it out and wanted to be boyfriend /girlfriend.. I haven't seen him yet , he's been e-mailing and I weakend and sent A B-Day e-mail .. (We Live 100 miles apart) My gut says hes still figuring it out .... Blah Blah Blah ..... I Think I need to keep that no contact thing going don't I ?, Am I just a band aid to like some have said . Keep him "Happy Enough " to stay in that mode of Figuring it out !!!! Then I get an E-mail ..... "Thanks Miss Mary , I would call But my daughter and X are coming over "XO M ".... more

Ok Girls so far so good .... I didnot reply to last e-mail he sent . Last night he called ! (Yippee) He said he's worked stuff out with himself , And that He missed me dearly and was wondering if I might want to "Hang out " and be boyfriend /girlfriend . He was sorry he got freaked out about the X and his daughter .. His X put daughter up to calling me about 5 weeks ago to "Stay away from her dad " Anyhow .We had a sweet sweet talk ...nothing to serious tho... I told him I missed him too ... We left it at this .... He would call me and let me know when we could get together . more

Feeling down this morning in need of some up lifting from you girls ...... I keep plugging away and it seems to not help .... I'm missing my man thats confused (The Ex came back .... I bowed out grace fully ) My flippen X moved To Texas , So No help with my 8 year old .... It will be another 2 years before he'll help with support .... I know this cuz I know how slow the state of Idaho takes to do anything . I'm thinking of letting the bank take my house as its been a burden... Keeps me in a limbo ....I'm 47 years old and should not be in this place .. more