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Great tips Trace. Well he

Fri Mar 19 2010 - 07:32 am Commented in Dating : Asked for a second date but hasn't called to confirm

Great tips Trace. Well he hasn't called me since the day after our second date. So a week now... I know he's going camping this weekend so I'm not expecting a call. But oh well if he's not going to put in any effort he's not worth it. I met a really nice guy last night. He got my number and said he'd call and he did later than evening to 'make sure I got home safe' and said he'd call me the next day after work... and guess what? He did. Told me he had to do run some errands but would call me... more

"Just MHO - I think if were a

Fri Mar 12 2010 - 06:57 am Commented in Dating : Asked for a second date but hasn't called to confirm

"Just MHO - I think if were a guy on a date and the girl verbally told me that she's not the type to intitiate contact, it would turn me off. I would think that she's playing games and that I'd be expected to make a greater amount of effort."

Actually it's being honest. I DON'T typically contact guys. In fact I don't really contact most people in general. Occasionally I'll call a friend but most of the time they call me. I'm quite shy and I don't like to put myself out there too much.... more

AHA! Just to update he called

Wed Mar 10 2010 - 05:43 pm Commented in Dating : Asked for a second date but hasn't called to confirm

AHA! Just to update he called me Monday night and we have a dinner date set up for tonight (He wanted to make it for last night but I told him I was busy, which I was). Hopefully everything goes ok!

Thanks Trace. I really

Mon Mar 08 2010 - 06:57 pm Commented in Dating : Asked for a second date but hasn't called to confirm

Thanks Trace. I really appreciate the advice. I will not make myself too available for him.

Sorry people if I seemed to babble on and on. I actually have Aspergers so I tend to do that. It's also really hard for me to understand people at times so I ask for help.

Thanks Mittens. I'm sure both

Mon Mar 08 2010 - 06:56 pm Commented in Dating : Asked for a second date but hasn't called to confirm

Thanks Mittens. I'm sure both of the guys we've dealt with are missing out so their loss.

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