"Just MHO - I think if were a guy on a date and the girl verbally told me that she's not the type to intitiate contact, it would turn me off. I would think that she's playing games and that I'd be expected to make a greater amount of effort."
Actually it's being honest. I DON'T typically contact ...
AHA! Just to update he called me Monday night and we have a dinner date set up for tonight (He wanted to make it for last night but I told him I was busy, which I was). Hopefully everything goes ok!
Thanks Trace. I really appreciate the advice. I will not make myself too available for him.
Sorry people if I seemed to babble on and on. I actually have Aspergers so I tend to do that. It's also really hard for me to understand people at times so I ask for help.
Thanks Mittens. I'm sure both of the guys we've dealt with are missing out so their loss.
OK if you actually knew me you'd know when I was obsessing...
I really don't think just wondering 'why' is a problem. We all wonder why guys do and say the things they do. That doesn't necessarily mean we are obsessing. That is a normal human reaction to wonder and being an introvert, a judger ...
Well it takes a lot more than some lazy sweet talk for me to sleep with anyone. Maybe it works on girls who aren’t used to compliments that they melt and fall into bed when the odd guy hands them a few. I’m not one of those girls. I’m one of those girls that have heard it all, countless times ...
Well he did text me this morning and said he was out fishing (he said he likes to do that any chance he can get. If he's not working, which is almost every day, and it's not winter, he's fishing) and would talk to me soon. Well IF I do see him again should I mention my disappointment in him 'forgett...
Maybe he is just flaky. Maybe he's bipolar! Who knows... Well if it was just to be nice I can see a guy saying 'We should do this again 'sometime'. I'll call you' But we basically made plans. Ok not exact plans with a date, time and place but we made plans to make plans for this week. He specificall...
I thought we got along really well and I could tell he was attracted to me. No there wasn't any physical contact (it was a first date after all) but I was told by his friend that he is very shy around women so I wasn't expecting anything. But I mean why would he tell me he wanted to see me again if ...
So on Sunday I had a date with a guy (friend of a friend) that I had just met the previous weekend. We had talked on the phone a few times (I actually gave him my number but it was sort of as a joke. His creepy friend who was also hitting on my friend kept asking for my number. So I wrote it down, w...
