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Monica, Unless you have good
Wed Feb 10 2010 - 10:33 pm Commented in Relationships : THE REVEAL..The honeymoon is over..reality sets in...
Monica,
Unless you have good cause to believe something is seriously and specifically wrong, my advice is for you to just relax a bit.
When I hit the "pulling away" phase, I panicked. My insecurity went into overdrive and everything he said or did or did not say or do seemed to have some mysterious meaning behind it that my brain HAD to figure out.
Your situation is made much worse because it happens to coincide with a lot of other really big life events (moving in... more
Wow! I can honestly say I've
Wed Feb 10 2010 - 10:07 pm Commented in Love a Man Without Losing Yourself : Women helping women!
Wow! I can honestly say I've never thought of that. And that deserves a big DUH for me.
I mean I know a woman with a baby is nearly impossible to make plans with, and rightfully so :) But I never thought she may have just wanted to cling to her routines with her man the way I was. In my mind, sometimes I get childish ideas, like everyone else is this independent, strong woman so, naturally, their not making plans with me means they just don't want to.
Again I say DUH!... more
Hi, Sue. Yikes! That's a
Tue Feb 09 2010 - 09:23 pm Commented in Love a Man Without Losing Yourself : I dont want to be weak anymore
Hi, Sue.
Yikes! That's a tough one. I once found some old condoms that were in the pocket of a suitcase my bf used years before we started dating. Luckily, the condoms were expired, meaning they'd been there a while.
But in your case, I just don't believe what he's telling you. Who doesn't empty a bag out before they use it on a trip???
I think you need to give him an opportunity, now that some time has passed, to tell you the truth. It sounds like you have some doubt,... more
Yeah! I hear you on the first
Tue Feb 09 2010 - 02:05 pm Commented in Love a Man Without Losing Yourself : Women helping women!
Yeah! I hear you on the first issue.
Somewhere between my 20s and 30s, I went from being the girl in a relationship, who never went out clubbing with the girls, to being the only one who isn't married with kids.
Now I feel like the only one left who isn't completely overwhelmed by motherhood. Most of my friends are on their second children and can never seem to hang out alone or visit.
Reaching out and following through is a biggie! It bugs me when I find myself and a... more
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Hearing stories like that
Hearing stories like that just makes me mad! Why should his date be more important than hers?
Doesn't it just bug you when grown men act like they're the children?
Something that happens to me is I make plans with friends, and they have babysitter arrangements but when we meet, they have the baby because something didn't work out with their husband, who ended up having other plans at the last minute.
I certainly don't mind the baby being there, but it changes the... more