Lulu178

: Fri Nov 20 2009 - 10:39 am

Also - I would posit that the

Also - I would posit that the whole reason most of us are so obsessed with finding a guy is biological - we are driven to reproduce. At least I'm being up front about it.

Fri Nov 20 2009 - 10:36 am

Thanks for your input, guys.

Thanks for your input, guys. I do want a relationship, too, but it is secondary. You see, once you are a mother, it is fairly all-consuming. If you are married, your husband will also come second. I was married - so I know, and we are divorced because he is a lout, not because my baby comes firs...

Wed Nov 18 2009 - 07:12 pm

how long do I give this method to work before giving up and going to the sperm bank - I'm 39

OK - but here's the problem. I'm 39. I don't have time for this waiting game bs. I understand that it won't work out if I do the pursuing. I want to have another baby within the next year or 2 max (i.e., with my own egg). How long do I waste on this bull**** before just admitting defeat and goi...

Tue Nov 17 2009 - 07:40 pm

Why do the ones I like never follow up and the ones I don't pursue me? What am I doing wrong?

Hi Paige,

Why is it that the ones I am not interested in pursue me and the ones I am interested in do not? I let them take the lead, am easy to get along with. I'm sure I'm just as pretty and easy to get along with with the ones that I want to follow up with me as the ones I'm not, so what giv...

Also - I would posit that the