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You're totally right,
Fri Sep 11 2009 - 05:33 pm Commented in Understanding Men : WTH?
You're totally right, funnyone - that is totally rude! I mean, just how patient is too patient when they're in withdrawal mode? I'm still trying to figure out when they've finally crossed the line, and it just turns into disrespect for us. I guess we'll just know intuitively when we've reached our limits for the situation?
sorry, I don't really have any clear advice to offer you - only my empathy ))) My guy is currently going thru a freakout, wobble, whatever you want to call it - at... more
Hi Flora, I'm also in an east
Fri Sep 11 2009 - 02:32 am Commented in Long-Distance Relationships : Keeping a long distance relationship strong
Hi Flora,
I'm also in an east coast-west coast LDR. I've noticed a similar pattern with my guy, with the communication gradually dropping off. I visited him for 10 days last month - everything was great (if you'd like all the gory details, you can read my (very long!) post in the topic "i think my guy is freaking out!" in the Understanding Men forum)- and now i've barely heard from him in the past 2 1/2 weeks! I hope this hasn't happened to you and that you're both commmunicating at...
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I can see where you're coming
I can see where you're coming from, but I'd say just be careful b/c introducing the "space" the way you're doing it is a bit artificial and could backfire b/c he might end up thinking you're just not that into him or get paranoid if you have prolonged periods of silence. (that's what guys do to us, right?? ;))
Maybe it would be better to be genuinely busy with other things, other interests. fill up your calendar with activities and friends, and not have your schedule revolve around... more