Ok ladies, I need input! There is a guy that teaches the exercise class that I go to and after a couple months of mindless flirty flirty eye contact during class, I decided to ask him for the artist and title of a song he uses during class, through Facebook of course. He replied and asked if I ever go out for drinks. I was so excited I nearly came unglued! I replied with a "yes, I do like to go out for drinks". After a few days of nothing, he asked if I found the song I was looking for. To which I replied that I had and wondered if he got my last message. more

Ok....it has finally happened. I am going on the first date in 12 years. I have mixed emotions. I am a bit of a cynic (sp?) after a pretty crappy marriage, so I don't really know what I expect. my question is this....in today's times, there are some real nuts out there. I am not sure that I want any man to know where I live until we get to know each other really well. I have a child to think about after all. We have agreed to have dinner, but how do I go about telling him that I would rather meet him there. more