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Hi, Just thought id update

Sat Dec 26 2009 - 08:12 pm Commented in Understanding Men : Am in a Dilemma!!

Hi,

Just thought id update you.....a few days later I got a text from him asking for my address so he could send me a christmas card, which i got and it was lovely.....( hes been so busy that we couldnt meet before xmas, not that i asked, he gave me that information). He then said he would phone but he didnt......didnt hear anything for a week. So i texted him saying id b down in his area over xmas and id left stuff at his, cds and a ring, said id just b nipping in cos i was at a... more

Hi, Yeah I get exactly what

Wed Dec 16 2009 - 08:32 pm Commented in Understanding Men : Am in a Dilemma!!

Hi,
Yeah I get exactly what you are saying and am trying hard to get there!! I need to focus exactly on myself and my needs and like myself for who I am. Its funny how much we let someone else influence our opinions on how we are or what we feel.

I know it isnt really about this guy, I suppose I am using him as an excuse to project negativety on myself! Wow, even looking at it from that angle and I feel better.....i can only control myself and my feelings so why is it I am... more

Hi thetababe, thanks for the

Wed Dec 16 2009 - 07:11 pm Commented in Understanding Men : Am in a Dilemma!!

Hi thetababe, thanks for the reply.
You are so right by saying that I am trying to do everything right and I should relax. I suppose I say I am being needy because I want reassurance from him that he likes me, finds me attractive, that he wants to be with me only! I know the only person I can get this from is myself and I am working hard to build up my own confidence by keeping busy with my children, going out with friends and going to the gym and I am busy.....I think the neediness... more

Hi all, I have been on for a

Tue Dec 15 2009 - 08:25 pm Commented in Understanding Men : Hello! I'm new here

Hi all,

I have been on for a few months but have just posted my first dating dilemma. Thought id just pop in and say hello. I find all ur advice very useful.

Am in a Dilemma!!

Tue Dec 15 2009 - 08:10 pm Posted in Understanding Men

Hi Folks,

Am new to all this dating after been split up from my husband of 10yrs for 2yrs now. Had a 7month relationship with someone last year where i displayed alot of needy behaviour and drove him away!!! Am learning slowly but surely how to effectively date and have a fufilling social life, career and also a mum. more

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