Sat Feb 27 2010 - 11:28 am Posted in
Big Date Check-in
Ladies, Gentlemen:
I need your advice. I’ve been chatting with a really sweet gentleman online now for about a month. He lives about 1000 miles away, and we will be meeting face-to-face for the first time next month during my vacation. I have several questions about this visit:
1. Should I offer him accommodations in my home if I feel secure enough to do so?
2. What activities should I plan for the two of us when he comes for the first visit? more
Thank you, Regengirl. That's
Thank you, Regengirl. That's good advice and I will heed it! I know too well how quickly guys can change their minds--especially the guys I've met online. I believe that since there are so many women online, a lot of the guys are experiencing the "perhaps the next one will be even better" syndrone. They don't have realistic expectations. So the slightest blunder a girl makes sets them running--without explanation, without a goodbye, etc. I've learned to not make assumptions or to have... more