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Sat Feb 13 2010 - 09:16 pm

Yeah... "men always used to

Yeah...

"men always used to bring flowers for women they were courting"

...I guess us nowadays women can sing the song lyrics..."you don't bring me flowers anymore"...lol

Sat Feb 13 2010 - 03:35 pm

Missconfused, "Does any of

Missconfused,

"Does any of you have some good advice when it comes to shy guys?"

1. Listen to Kat60. She helped me with her great advice too!

2. Watch out that you don't have to do ALL the work with a shy guy though. Because then you'll end up putting him in your wagon and pulling hi...

Sat Feb 13 2010 - 03:07 pm

Bluebunny, Yeah, it seems

Bluebunny,

Yeah, it seems like he is AVOIDING the Valentine's Day expectations in his own mind. But maybe he knows he's "not in love" YET and doesn't want to stick his neck out so soon (I'm not sure how long you've been together).

Either way, he's not making you feel good about your relationsh...

Fri Feb 12 2010 - 10:48 pm

Stacynusmith, You've got some

Stacynusmith,

You've got some really good advice coming in on your thread.

I think that if there is anything to salvage in this relationship, it can only be done by leaving SPACE between the two of you. And that means leave him alone so that he can do the chasing if he really wants you! Withou...

Fri Feb 12 2010 - 06:20 pm

Itspossible, Wow...Soulmate

Itspossible,

Wow...Soulmate has really given you incredible advice (#290)!

I do believe that it is better to do nothing rather than something that you would later regret.

The only reason I didn't do that with my friend (and sent him the Dear John letter) was because our situation was clearl...

Fri Feb 12 2010 - 03:29 pm

Yeah, he's probably trying to

Yeah, he's probably trying to see how much "drama" he can stir up. Makes him laugh!

Thu Feb 11 2010 - 10:58 pm

Mima, "...then out of the

Mima,

"...then out of the blue he said now he doesn't want a relationship anymore..."

I'm so sorry to hear about his sudden FEARS. But it seems to be the overriding theme of Never Been Married men!

Thu Feb 11 2010 - 10:55 pm

Excuse me, while I boast a

Excuse me, while I boast a little...

You Are 4% Control Freak

There's no way you're a control freak. You're totally laid back - and able to take life as it comes.

While you definitely have a healthy mental attitude, don't get suckered into letting someone control you.

Yeah...so I was see...

Thu Feb 11 2010 - 10:40 pm

I have chocolate covered

I have chocolate covered raisins EVERY morning...with fresh, manually ground and stove top steamed lattes...of my favorite flavor.

I eat extremely healthily otherwise...I just REFUSE to give up the small pleasures in life.

Darn it. After a couple glasses of wine, I just bought another relation...

Thu Feb 11 2010 - 12:21 am

HisOpal, "I just spent 45

HisOpal,

"I just spent 45 minutes on the phone with him."

COOL! Things are looking better.

I wish I were as lucky as you (I'm still waiting for my phone call)!

P.S. I never let any of my men see my drama either, as I was always positive, but that didn't seem to matter...but then again......

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