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Why did he stop calling me?

Sat Dec 05 2009 - 08:15 pm Posted in Understanding Men

I know this is the complete opossite to what dating without drama tells you to do.

I met a guy at university around 5 years ago, we were friends nothing more. When we finished university we went our own ways in finding jobs and moved to different cities. that happened around 2 years ago.

recently he requested me as a friend on facebook, we started chatting a lot and catching up on our adventures for the past two years. We realised we had lots in common. more

Thanks for all your comments.

Fri Nov 20 2009 - 04:32 pm Commented in Understanding Men : not sure what to believe

Thanks for all your comments.

i know he is been single for a while. And tried to date one of my friends ages ago, but she went out with him and thought he was boring. So not sure if he is now scare of women as he seems quite shy.

When my friend asked him what he thought of me, and he said 'hes not ready' he never told her we have been chatting on facebook.
Dont you think he should have said something about it?

He probably knows that I fancy him,not sure if that's... more

not sure what to believe

Fri Nov 20 2009 - 12:55 pm Posted in Understanding Men

I have not had a boyfriend for a while. and last weekend it was my friends'big party so I went. I dont usually drink but that day I decided to have a couple of drinks.
As soon as I got to the party, I noticed a guy that I thought was very good looking straight away. My friends introduce every one to all the people that were there.

Eventually I found myself dancing alone and then I saw him when he got up and came to join me. We then started dancing and ended up kissing each other, when I was leaving the party I just gave him a kiss and left. more

Mima, If after 1year or so he

Wed Jun 10 2009 - 08:11 am Commented in Dating : Do i move on or wait patiently?Please advice!!!

Mima,

If after 1year or so he has not committed to you...Move on
and the second date has told you he cant give you what you want....Move on too!

Believe me, I went out with an older guy over 40 for 8 years, am in my early 30's. and he always told me he couldnt give me any commitment even though he didnt have any kids. Yet still I thought I could give him a chance that he will see the good in me and will change but after wasting 8years waiting for him and I realise I cant... more

Thanks ever so much for all

Wed Jun 10 2009 - 07:58 am Commented in Dating : my date wasnt able to perform in the bedroom

Thanks ever so much for all your comments.

Its really hard to deal with this situation as we work together. I worked with him yesterday and thought I could probably ask him what's happening between us. But I never got a chance as lots of people were around. So when I got home I rang him and said to him that I really enjoyed spending time with him but need to know what's really happening....then there was a long pause.....that after probably 5min(not lying) I asked if he was still... more

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