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You did a good thing by
You did a good thing by changing departments. As for the feeling of lost self-worth...you got the intimacy you longed from him. In the process, you also learned the kind of man he truly is. It hurts, yes I know. But it's also better to have had this experience or your emotional ties, without any sexual involvement, would have grown stronger. Imagine allowing another 7 years of these emotional ties with this man and how much worse it could have been. When you do see him, treat him as if... more
Let it go! If he's truly
Let it go! If he's truly interested, he'll contact you. Maybe by the time he does, you will have moved on. Don't make the mistake of chasing him and appear desperate. This will only feed his ego and turn him off. Respect yourself not be toyed with...but remember if he does come around, don't play games either. Live your life and don't let yours revolve around his. If you have plans with friends, doing school work, laundry, etc., don't change your schedule to accommodate his. He'll... more
You should be asking yourself
You should be asking yourself why he's on a dating site to begin with. If he is, then obviously he's not serious about you. You need to start dating other men. You don't become intimate with a man until HE tells you he wants a serious relationship if this is what you're ultimately looking for from him. In the meantime, have a life of your own that does not revolve around him. I feel your pain. I have been there. My ex disappeared for a days...turns out he was disappearing with other... more
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I met, what seemed to be a
I met, what seemed to be a great man. We chatted online for hours. We talked on the phone for hours. Our dates were full of non-stop laughing and incredible, passionate kissing! On our last date, he was in a bad mood and I couldn't seem to do anything right. He didn't contact me again. I realize this man has some issues with letting his problems to dominate his entire day and affect innocent people around him but still I was depressed for weeks. It was hard not contacting him. The... more