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Gretel

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Thu Jan 07 2010 - 05:51 am

Oh my goodness - the

Oh my goodness - the analysing!! The appropriate reply is:

"I know, but I'm giving you a chance." You gotta say it in the right, melodramatic tone of voice of course :P

Mon Dec 07 2009 - 03:59 am

I havn't been in this

I havn't been in this situation but I would suggest:
- keep up not initiating contact (that is working presently!)
- DO NOT sleep with him
- Don't assume that he has feelings, in fact don't assume anything!
- Start dating other men, if that is hard at the very least join a dating website and see...

Tue Nov 03 2009 - 06:04 pm

LOL! That is so typical -

LOL! That is so typical - and funny!

Let him lead and see what happens:)

Sun Nov 01 2009 - 11:05 pm

You don't want to lose a guy

You don't want to lose a guy who doesn't make you feel wanted....

That doesn't sound healthy. Is it just sexually? or is this how you feel in general around this guy?

Next time he's relaxing - maybe sitting on the couch watching tv or something. Sit next to him and put your head on his shoul...

Sun Nov 01 2009 - 06:27 pm

I agree with the above

I agree with the above posters. Also, if you are worried about looking stupid - let yourself be ok with that and be ready to laugh at yourself if you say something that makes you cringe. Guys love a girl who doesn't take herself too seriously. Also, don't think that the magic happens only during ...

Sun Nov 01 2009 - 06:18 pm

Hi Snowbird, I don't think

Hi Snowbird,

I don't think this guy is going anywhere. If he is saying he doesn't mind you seeing other guys he certainly hasn't laid any 'claim' on you. He's obviously a nice guy but if you take what he is SAYING out of the equation what are you left with? What do his actions say? He falls a...

Sun Nov 01 2009 - 05:50 pm

Maybe you have but at least

Maybe you have but at least learn from it! I dont' want to give you false hope that he's still keen because he didn't follow through on calling you back. This tells me that he may not be keen. If his sister is seriously ill (and we don't know anything about that) that is a pretty good excuse for ...

Sun Nov 01 2009 - 05:38 pm

Does it count if you are

Does it count if you are living with them? Throughout the day, when we are at work, maybe once or twice a week we'll contact each other. Usually its for something - ie: not just to say 'hi'.
My bf will ring me near the end of the day to say if he's going to be late back from work or if he's going...

Fri Oct 30 2009 - 12:53 am

A man will usually bring this

A man will usually bring this up himself if that what he is thinking. I'm sure there are exceptions - as there always are but hearing it from him without a clever questioning tecnique from us is a surefire way to know he is sincere.

I think it was three months or so after my bf and I became excl...

Wed Oct 07 2009 - 05:22 am

I was engaged to a guy who

I was engaged to a guy who turned out to be gay. I didn't think he was but two other people suggested it after we broke up and looking back it made sense. We'd chosen not to sleep together until we were married but there was never any other kind of intimacy. Intimacy was pretty much limited to ho...

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