Your point is well taken, and you should certainly not take my viewpoint as a personal judgement of you. I am sure you are very bright and accomplished. I hope you find gainful employment soon.

However....bottom line is, we want what we want. I prefer to date men with at least a bachelor's degree or else they have something else going for them, like owning their own business, etc. People are allowed to have preferences. Is it fair that men prefer younger women? No. Some people...  more

Hey Audrey,
I think I know what you're getting at. That the inside is more important thatn the outside. No argument from me there. But a man has to have qualities in addition to goodness and kindness for me to be attracted. There has to be some spark, and I do want someone who is financially secure and successful. I have worked hard to get to that point in my life, and I would expect the same from the man I share my life with. Maybe shallow to some, but important to me.

To...  more