I am pleased that I have found a good man who cherishes me as I him. No pressure, no rush, getting to know one another is by far the best way to test the water in a healthy relationship. We share the same values and have similar interests. We have no ties and reached an age where maturity is foremost. Respect for each other's spaces, not living in a de facto situation too soon, appreciating good manners with and without each other. Not texting and emailing nor calling too often has helped nurture a healthy balance.