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Hello leolady, I really don't

Wed Apr 29 2009 - 10:32 pm Commented in Relationships : Witholding and withdrawing behaviour

Hello leolady,

I really don't know what to tell you, but at least let you know I understand how you feel. My ex used to be that way. I felt punished by his witholding actions, such as sex, telling me he loved me, helping me with anything when I was sick... I began to drift away from him. I began sleeping in another room (might as well sleep by myself) I took care of cooking, cleaning, washing clothes... everything that was MY responsibility, but gave him the distance he insisted on... more

How can you understand men?

Wed Apr 29 2009 - 06:11 pm Posted in Understanding Men

I have been dating a man for about 10 months and it has been pretty much a real roller coaster ride. I've learned to take what that is, even though I really can't tell you what it is I'm taking, and go with the flow until it grows into more, or it fizzles out. I love reading on here and learning more of what I need to know everyday. Anyway, I've read poster after poster all seeming to have the same problems with men feeling strung out, used and feeling like a booty call. Well, I got brave. more

Tudie, I agree. I am

Thu Apr 23 2009 - 10:56 pm Commented in Understanding Men : Do men appreciate independent women?

Tudie, I agree. I am independent, but step back for him to open the door for me, I tell him what I want to eat instead of the waiter. He has told me on many occasions he admires me for being independent, mainly taking care of myself, finding something to entertain myself when he is not around.

Recently, I found out my mother has cancer. When I was down and out, scared and worried, he didn't come around much. He let me know he is attracted to a strong emotional independent woman, not... more

Hi everyone! I'm new here,

Thu Apr 23 2009 - 09:51 pm Commented in Understanding Men : Introduction

Hi everyone! I'm new here, too. But I'm not new to Paige's newsletters. I have read, learned from them and my self esteem has risen to the higheset point in my life. I can read one newsletter 5 times and learn 5 different things each time. I hope to learn more and use it to better my life and those around me.

Thanks Paige!!

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