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Hey ab...it's me! You know,
Sun Sep 13 2009 - 09:12 pm Commented in Dating : Friends With Benefits
Hey ab...it's me! You know, it sounds like that guy admitted up front what many guys won't admit up front. I like how you responded, personally - I think it was appropriate. Depending on how you are wired (and I sense you and I are wired alike;))...a friends with benefits relationship could result in a lot of hurt.
It might be best to not hear from that kind of guy again, since he is making it clear he wants sex with no commitment.
Still, I know it is hard.
Oh, ab - I am so sorry your
Sun Sep 13 2009 - 08:41 pm Commented in Dating : Oops - slept with him first date (after phone & emails) - any chance of salvaging his respect now?
Oh, ab - I am so sorry your dog passed away. Man...enough with grieving. You've had so much pain and grief for weeks now. I am truly sorry.
I know time does help, but sometimes it can feel like it will take a lifetime to get over something when the emotions are SO strong. I still have a few in my past that...if I'm honest...I never completely got over. Gotta keep moving forward, though.
I have not watched Under the Tuscan Sun - I'll have to see that one.
You must be... more
Hi sweet ab - thank you so
Sun Sep 13 2009 - 08:17 pm Commented in Dating : Oops - slept with him first date (after phone & emails) - any chance of salvaging his respect now?
Hi sweet ab - thank you so much for asking. I have not heard from him since his brief email Tuesday, which was 48 hours after I left his place. Ugh. You know how it is. It's rough.
After "steeping" in these really hard emotions after again sleeping with him and remembering how awesome I felt when I did NOT sleep with him the date before...I know what I must do if I get the chance: IF I hear from him and IF he wants to see me again (big "ifs" at this point - he might be done... more
Hi oh little darlin:) Can
Sun Sep 13 2009 - 08:06 pm Commented in Dating : Oops - slept with him first date (after phone & emails) - any chance of salvaging his respect now?
Hi oh little darlin:) Can you clarify what you meant by "withhld that needy part of yourself from him awhile?" Are you referring to not sleeping with him, or something else? I know that, if I see him again, I must say something to him and refrain from sleeping with him (if there is a next time). I know that now that I have had to steep in how icky I feel to have had him be so into me...then sleep with him...then minimal contact from him - ugh.
If I tell him that I have realized... more
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Hey, robinincarolina, can you
Hey, robinincarolina, can you share what you sometimes write, specifically, to tell a man you are not interested? Do you just write, "I'm not interested?"!!!! I'm curious about ways to handle that with the least rejection sting.
I'm not doing online dating right now...but if my guy moves on (high chance, I think), then I may be online at some point. Good stuff in this thread.