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Hi Curly - that's what I was

Tue Sep 15 2009 - 10:23 am Commented in Dating : Oops - slept with him first date (after phone & emails) - any chance of salvaging his respect now?

Hi Curly - that's what I was thinking...thanks for the validation:)

Good comments. I am trying

Tue Sep 15 2009 - 10:22 am Commented in Dating : Sure signs he is a "player" - just in it for sex

Good comments. I am trying to discern whether or not my guy is a player.

SETUP:
Long distance (4.5 hours away) divorced with daughter, who lives in my town and he is trying to get moved back here. I have a son. So - it is very hard to see each other in person more than every few weeks.

May: A friend set us up. We chatted several times by phone and started exchanging a lot of emails. This was for about three weeks.

June 13th: The first time we met in person. ... more

Sure signs he is a "player" - just in it for sex

Mon Sep 14 2009 - 10:32 pm Posted in Dating

Hi DWD Divas,

As I sit back and wait to see if/when my guy contacts me again, I find myself wondering if I have been really naive as I've ventured into dating for the first time in - gulp - 15 years.

Would you ladies be willing to post comments describing what you know to be sure signs a guy is a "player" and just out for sex?

I realize that, for many, it should be like...duh...obvious.

OK - I assume that rushing into sex would be a sign...then stopping contact after sex. I suppose those would be obvious.

Please share what you know to be signs that a guy is playing you... more

Hi divina - oh yeah...I

Mon Sep 14 2009 - 10:27 pm Commented in Dating : Oops - slept with him first date (after phone & emails) - any chance of salvaging his respect now?

Hi divina - oh yeah...I forgot he would be gone that long. I hope he sends you a non sexual contact, too. Let me know!!! I am interested to see how things unfold for the two of you:)

Yes, you're right - if I

Mon Sep 14 2009 - 09:30 pm Commented in Dating : Oops - slept with him first date (after phone & emails) - any chance of salvaging his respect now?

Yes, you're right - if I don't hear from him, there will be no need to say it :(

What you plan to say sounds good to me!

Let me know how it goes when you say it:)

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