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Thanks Truthsaber! I think
Tue Jun 01 2010 - 09:53 am Commented in Relationships : I'm Freaking Out!
Thanks Truthsaber!
I think you're right...he has met some of my family so far and will meet the rest of them eventually and my worst fear is having to apologize for his behavior to them. My dad has extremely high standards when it comes to guys I date so I'm always paranoid that they aren't going to meet expectations. I don't want to feel stupid for being with him...but you're right, his behavior isn't my responsibility. I hope that time will loosen me up, and hopefully make him... more
Hey that's totally
Tue Jun 01 2010 - 12:58 am Commented in Relationships : Sabotaging our relationships
Hey that's totally understandable, and I'd say most women are right there with you! Low confidence is a major issue for us and we have to work daily to keep building it up instead of letting it deteriorate. The biggest issue, I think, is to be your own backbone for a while. Don't give up on dating, but do give up on looking for a date - just for a little while. Give yourself some time to do things that YOU enjoy doing, things that make you feel better about yourself. Go on a trip,... more
Well there's no clear-cut
Thu Mar 11 2010 - 03:06 am Commented in Understanding Men : Survey For The Ladies On The Board
Well there's no clear-cut answer for me.
All the guys I date seem to have issues. I didn't realize until reading a lot about relationships that I always end up with "emotionally unavailable" men because I'm emotionally unavailable myself. Once I faced all of those things in my life that I had been trying to avoid - my pain over things that happened a long time ago, even in my childhood - I began to suddenly feel again.
I hadn't actually felt anything for a long time. I knew... more
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I think I can really
I think I can really understand where you are coming from and I think the problem may be arising from one of these two areas: fear of being alone, or fear of commitment.
If you have been hurt in the past it is totally understandable that you would have a fear of commitment. It's difficult to trust the guy you're with when all the previous guys have turned out to be jerks. As thetababe told me in one of my posts "I think you are just getting scared because your... more