When a guy says he's not ready for a serious relationship, then you have to take him at his word. It's hard when he does things like introduce you to his family and draw you into his life...but if he said at the beginning that he only wanted casual, then that is most likely what he wanted. But yo...
Hi Lynn...sounds like you have it worked out just right. Stick firmly to no contact! If a man is contacting you, it's because he's thinking about you. If he doesn't have strong feelings for you...then why is this guy contacting you? Get the drift? Sounds like he's just running away from someth...
Hiya....we had a great Christmas. Went to the ball, me in my slinky dress, him in his tux and we had a lovely evening. He kept telling me how lovely I looked. He had to go home early the next morning, so we didn't have much alone time...but the following week, I went to his house for a week and we...
Ahh..will see him on Friday! We're going to a ball and he's pretty excited about wearing a tux...and I have a VERY nice dress.
We had a chat recenrly about things, I asked if the LDR thing was working ok for him, he said he was happy and I said I was happy too....so, so far we're on the same...
Ha ha...anyway, it's not flu, it's lurghie! Lurghie is MUCH more deadly and vile...and no, I didn't get it from snogging. I haven't flippin seen him for two weeks...but oh my, I WILL see him on Friiiiiidddaaaayyyy! :-))
Gosh SM...that was easy. Open and shut case, eh? :-))
Hi Mima...has there been any more developments?
The best thing you can do, seeing as you feel that you don't have time to lose, is to give yourself a mental cut off date with him...but don't initiate any 'talks' or tell him what sort of path you're on. Just decide in your heart how long you're w...
Hey Chicken...thanks for sharing your story. We're all just amateurs here, finding our way around in the dark...but just reading through your first post, I think (said with the best possible intention!!) that you never allowed this guy to chase you...or feel any kind of pull. In the end, he felt l...
Hi Downtown....ok...something jumped out at me here, one is that his ex-wife cheated on him, which is pretty much the biggest betrayal of trust around. You said you also did something that caused him to lose a little trust in you in the beginning. Somethins 'pinged' in my mind there...just wonder...
This is really insightful...and funny! :-)
