Hi Ladies,
So many of the things you say ring true to me ... my last relationship was with a jealous possessive man who suffocated me and ultimately drove me away ... so finding a man like this one is so refreshing to me.
While we are close and love spending time together ... we both also have...
Hi girls,
Thanks for all the good advice.
I really don't think I have to say anything ... he's already totally guiltridden ... why do I think so? read on ...
When we exchanged our usual a.m. email last Friday ... he mentioned the offer to go on the cruise ... my only response was ... "it s...
Hi Buits,
Your comments came while I was typing. I see what you are saying.
I probably said something to the effect that "I don't care" ... and of course that's not true ... I just didn't want his decision to be my burden ... and I guess I was annoyed that he would even have to ask me how I ...
Hi Pandora,
Thanks for your comment ... I guess I'm trying to figure out myself what my objection would be. He's a great guy and he's given me no reason to distrust him ... so it's not that.
He obviously values our relationship enough to care how I feel about him going so that's a good thin...
Hi there Ladies (and guys if you care to share),
I'm in a relationship with a man I've known for several months ... recently we decided we want a committed and monogomous relationship ... so far all is well ... I feel we are getting closer all the time.
So here's the situation ...
A male f...
My consolation is that none of these jerks got a piece of me before they disappeared. Once they know that I'm not hopping into bed on the strengh of a couple of dates, they go looking for easier pickings. That's fine with me.
Hi Smartblonde2,
I read your post and could have written it myself. I'm so sorry for your loss. I also lost my hubby in December 2005. I'm a lot further along than you are ... we were married 45 years ... so just imagine what this new world looks like to me.
I live in a large retirement com...
Hi Jenny,
So, what's new with you? How are things going?
I met someone new 2 weeks ago. Nice guy. Widowed after 43 years of marriage, intelligent, good personality, financially secure. We have a lot in common ... went out a few times ... everything seemed great.
First red flag .....
Dear Jenny,
I'm from New Jersey... My husband and I bought a home in the Villages in central Florida in 2003 and spent time here as snowbirds until 2005 when we went home to NJ for the holidays ... we had Thanksgiving ... he got pneumonia and died on December 6. I returned to Florida in January ...
Hi Skunk Hollow,
I also had a wonderful husband who was faithful and loving from the day we met to the day he died. My biggest regret is that I sometimes did not appreciate what I had.
The borderline had never been in a relationship like the one he and I had. His marriage ... followed by an...
