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Stacy, Whoever you spoke to

Wed Jul 21 2010 - 07:29 pm Commented in Relationships : Trying to move on

Stacy,

Whoever you spoke to is no "friend" ... he is delivering a message from his buddy Amit intended to get into your head.

Don't fall for it.

Hi Snowball, I've had

Wed Jul 21 2010 - 12:22 pm Commented in Relationships : What to say if he complains about money or that he’s always paying

Hi Snowball,

I've had conversations with men on this subject ... and they can be very sensitive to feeling "used" by women as a meal ticket.

That said ... a man who is in a committed monogomous relationship ... but who feels put upon to spring for 2 meals a month for his lady ... and who openly says "bring money to pay for dinner" (which I assume means you are going to him this time) would raise a big red flag with me.

I personally don't feel... more

Hi Girls, Have any of you

Wed Jul 21 2010 - 11:32 am Commented in Relationships : How much disclosure is necessary?

Hi Girls,

Have any of you read "Why Men Love Bitches." I read it a while ago and recalled a passage which I just read again ... "Any time a woman competes with another woman she demeans herself." The principles in that book are presented with humor ... but they do work.

My ex was pursued relentlessly by another woman ... no doubt he was flattered by her attention ... went on an ego trip believing he had 2 women vying... more

Hi Charlotte, Thanks for your

Mon Jul 19 2010 - 11:23 pm Commented in Relationships : How much disclosure is necessary?

Hi Charlotte,

Thanks for your input ... I know what you are saying and I appreciate your point of view.

However, I have already expressed my opinion of his "friendship" with this lady. I don't think it's healthy ... and have said so. In saying even that much ... I gave her more importance than I should have ... made myself appear a little insecure ... and all that accomplished is that he no longer mentions her .

I'm not... more

Love it Theta ... really cuts

Sun Jul 11 2010 - 04:27 pm Commented in Relationships : How much disclosure is necessary?

Love it Theta ... really cuts through the BS.

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