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Hi This was a very long

Tue Dec 29 2009 - 06:55 pm Commented in Understanding Men : not understanding men, understanding ME!

This was a very long post....I have read it all...

Just wanted to say take your mind off him and off yourself a bit dear.

Try to make some time to try new hobbies, activities and meet new people.

You sound just slightlty self absorbed and no man or anyone else can make you feel whole/ better.

Just try to have some fun doing things you like around people you like.....it will feel like a breath of fresh air to not live in the past and be fixated on... more

He's back on the dating site,

Tue Nov 10 2009 - 05:52 pm Commented in Big Date Check-in : Have I ruined my chances before the first date?

He's back on the dating site, I took down my pic but logged in to check out of curiousity and there he is stunning pic with new username and slight change to profile details....Doesn't that just make you feel gutted if that happens? Reckon he is not feeling it when he chats with me. And I jokingly told him I saw him back on.....so he probably won't initiate chat after that. I've blown it lets face it. Its too hard to lean back when you are behind a screen. I want something to happen....but... more

Thanks Trace and Gretel. Very

Tue Nov 03 2009 - 05:13 pm Commented in Big Date Check-in : Have I ruined my chances before the first date?

Thanks Trace and Gretel. Very good points about leaning back. Its not natural for me.... I got my ex husband by making the first move, btw. But that relationship is over...so I know better.

The reason I set the date... was because he insisted he would fit around me and the kids... and come up to see me. So I knew the venue and time etc.

But surprise, surprise I received two emails within an hour this evening. The first asking if I sent a 'Who blocked you MSN application', which... more

Thanks for your reply and

Mon Nov 02 2009 - 06:26 pm Commented in Big Date Check-in : Have I ruined my chances before the first date?

Thanks for your reply and advice and the reassurance that we all do these self sabotaging things. Trying not the beat myself up and have deleted all his photos, mail and messages, because it is all too clear that he is avoiding me. Really shouldn't have looked at his facebook but realised he is travelling to meet someone in another country and he couldn't get to me when I am just over an hour away!

So I didn't think a long distance relationship could work and it became self... more

Have I ruined my chances before the first date?

Thu Oct 29 2009 - 06:04 am Posted in Big Date Check-in

Hello Paige

I met this great guy online, tall dark and handsome and seems really into me. He contacted from a dating site and said I was ' his type'. From there we had one phone call and have been mostly instant messaging. We had on webcam just to see each other. more

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