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I know! What is up with that.
I know! What is up with that. And he is only 34 - imagine what he will feel like at 44! I did get tired of hearing about it and started going - gee I'm sorry - hope you feel better tomorrow and get off the phone. I would not be happy with someone who was always complaining and didn't want to ever go out and socialize. I say good luck to some other girl he finds to date!
Though I will still have to have a conversation with him to basically tell him I'm not interested in seeing him... more
Yea - you know I know other
Yea - you know I know other people who feel the same way about VD and if it was just that - I wouldn't ever end a relationship over that. But there were too many other things going on too and if he did nothing but continue with his normal seeing me and calling, etc. I would have been fine with that. It was his dramatic disappearance that I couldn't handle. Oh I went in and checked the dating site - and yep - sure enough he was on there today.
Thanks - I think this new guy will be... more
Oh sorry - it is the Guys Not
Oh sorry - it is the Guys Not Calling and Keeping in Contact thread.
It was at a Mardi Gras party
It was at a Mardi Gras party at a local club here. Most the people there are personal friends - its a pretty small place. So he knows all my friends. But he asked me to swing dance and I said I didn't know how - and he said don't worry - I can teach you. We had so much fun - he is a really good dancer. He actually asked to see me today and so he just dropped me off home :). I posted the story under my other thread. But he is so sweet! And he likes doing the same things I do. He also... more
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So why do these guys change
So why do these guys change so drastically? I don't get it. I was just sitting here telling my gf how this new guy is so sweet, so attentive, makes me feel special, etc. But so did the other guy in the beginning. Now he's treating me like a complete jerk, and trust me there were no signs in the beginning he would act this way.
I guess all we can do is take dating for what it is -- learning about the other person and whether it takes 2 months or 6 months or 2 years for that guy to... more