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Ariac

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Mon Nov 09 2009 - 11:11 am

Raichel, that's the million

Raichel, that's the million dollar question we are all asking ourselves. Truth is we will never know!! All you can do now is concentrate on yourself and getting you back to you. When my ex dumped me after 2 years I was devastated and asked all the same questions you are now - how can he just switch ...

Fri Nov 06 2009 - 10:47 am

Raichel, thats so sad! Poor

Raichel, thats so sad! Poor you.

To be honest, he sounds great and very sweet and honest but the timing is all wrong.
I think there are 3 reasons why some relationships don't work:
1) you have nothing in common and eventually the relationship peters out and loses it's sparkle.
2) Something ha...

Fri Nov 06 2009 - 10:33 am

Exclusive means we see each

Exclusive means we see each other and each other only. No third, fourth, fifth parties are on the scene. If he's getting antsy because you ask one small question in what appears to be a reasonable manner about his dedication to this exclusivity he wants, then the issue is with him and not you. And t...

Fri Nov 06 2009 - 10:08 am

dwdnut, Yep, my last post

dwdnut,

Yep, my last post was for you! I know exactly what you mean when you say that if you feel it, you say it. I am the same - most of the time I don't need or want a reply but at that moment when you hit send you just want them to know exactly what you think of them. It's more for you than h...

Thu Nov 05 2009 - 09:11 pm

Look at it this way: You are

Look at it this way:

You are sure as hell not the only one who's fallen off the wagon and you definately won't be the last. That boat is a great big cruise liner at this stage with the number of us who have acted on our feelings impulsively and sent a txt, email, phoned them and had to start Nc a...

Thu Nov 05 2009 - 08:46 pm

I wouldn't bother returning

I wouldn't bother returning it. My ex and I were together nearly two years and his stuff went in the bin. Keep it or dump it I say.

Thu Nov 05 2009 - 08:33 pm

True Sugar, You are not

True Sugar,

You are not being unreasonable in the slightest. If as you say, you meant less to him than he did to you, then of course he's going to find it easier to transfer into the "friend" sphere. Even if the break up is mutual, which lets face it is usually not the case, being "friends" me...

Thu Nov 05 2009 - 08:30 pm

Schweetie, Tough love -

Schweetie,

Tough love - Chances are you will NEVER figure out why. And if you do, you will have another million questions that follow his answer of why he stopped talking to you. And the not talking to them is definately the hardest part IMO. You talk to this guy every day depending on how serio...

Thu Nov 05 2009 - 06:38 pm

Woah - what do you mean

Woah - what do you mean "sometimes I feel he doesn't like me much"??????

On the present issue - I realise this is a very very very late reply but ideas for future presents for xmas, bdays, etc - a watch, season tickets for his favourite team's games, 1 hour flying lesson, concert tickets, car stu...

Thu Nov 05 2009 - 06:17 pm

Ok, I have missed so much of

Ok, I have missed so much of what has been going on!! Audrey - have I read right that you are finally seeing the bigger picture???????? Well done you! Glad to hear things haven't gotten you down :)

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