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Raichel, thats so sad! Poor
Fri Nov 06 2009 - 11:47 am Commented in Long-Distance Relationships : Help!!! What to do? I am lost!!! He Ran the other way!
Raichel, thats so sad! Poor you.
To be honest, he sounds great and very sweet and honest but the timing is all wrong.
I think there are 3 reasons why some relationships don't work:
1) you have nothing in common and eventually the relationship peters out and loses it's sparkle.
2) Something happens that just cannot be gotten over and causes too many rows to keep things going.
3)You like him, he likes you, everything is going well but the time just isn't right...
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Exclusive means we see each
Fri Nov 06 2009 - 11:33 am Commented in Relationships : Help Please...
Exclusive means we see each other and each other only. No third, fourth, fifth parties are on the scene. If he's getting antsy because you ask one small question in what appears to be a reasonable manner about his dedication to this exclusivity he wants, then the issue is with him and not you. And to turn it back on you and make you out to be the unreasonable one who's "watching his every move" - well come on, does it really need to be said that the guy is a drama queen?
You handled it...
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dwdnut, Yep, my last post
Fri Nov 06 2009 - 11:08 am Commented in Breakups : No Contact Support Thread Starts Today/Robinincarolina
dwdnut,
Yep, my last post was for you! I know exactly what you mean when you say that if you feel it, you say it. I am the same - most of the time I don't need or want a reply but at that moment when you hit send you just want them to know exactly what you think of them. It's more for you than him. I'm not saying it's the greatest method of getting your point across at a time when you feel like crap but at least you feel a little better after it. It's like a pressure release.
Look at it this way: You are
Thu Nov 05 2009 - 10:11 pm Commented in Breakups : No Contact Support Thread Starts Today/Robinincarolina
Look at it this way:
You are sure as hell not the only one who's fallen off the wagon and you definately won't be the last. That boat is a great big cruise liner at this stage with the number of us who have acted on our feelings impulsively and sent a txt, email, phoned them and had to start Nc all over again. There's some comfort to be gained in knowing that much!
Also, at the end of the day, at least you were honest. And you can never beat yourself up about that. Regardless... more
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Raichel, that's the million
Raichel, that's the million dollar question we are all asking ourselves. Truth is we will never know!! All you can do now is concentrate on yourself and getting you back to you. When my ex dumped me after 2 years I was devastated and asked all the same questions you are now - how can he just switch his feelings overnight, does he not care about me at all, etc etc. What I've figured out is that none of the answers matter and they are not going to change the situation one little bit. I know... more