you are all right, it all about the word 'control'. thats why its impossible for people like them to let go. right now, i am blanking his messages but the last thing he said was he will still be keeping the offer open towards me! like i am dying to take it!he still thinks we may have a chance togeth...
hi princess, i am aware he tried to weaken me but i have realised that that he is bad news. at last i have managed to tell him straight that i dont want to be with him, he is free to move on.all last week he tried calling me, inviting himself to my home one evening, tried to kiss me but i clearly to...
hi princess, thats not all. when i made it clear to him that we are over and he is free to move on he didn't see me for 2 days. then he appeared suddenly and asked me to help him find him someone nice!! i know he has got the cheek to say that to me. He even said if i know a friend of mine who maybe ...
i know he can't change just like that especially his major negative traits. it seems like he is stuck in his ego or perhaps jealousy! he knows about other guys approaching me...
hi all,
i was away on holidays for last 3 weeks. just got back and guess what he is still chasing me now but with an engagement ring this time!! his mum has been on the phone to me. he has been leaving voice mails, constantly crying! i have told him as it is but he wont get it.he wants me to re-con...
your right ladies. he is either extremely silly to show me that letter or severely controlling !! luckily he doesn't have spare set of keys to my flat. but i see him wait in the shed downstairs talking to his colleagues till i get back from the school run and as soon as he has seen myself and my son...
no i wanted to return the computer but he wont have it, i still remained firm. although there is something i am suspecting now or maybe i am being over sensitive. just before we split up he used to check on my son in his room if he is sleeping ok in his bed or pop in quickly to see if he is ok while...
hi all, thanks for your very wise words. i told him that i will not entertain another abusive relationship in my life, and that i have had enough of it all.Also said few other things to get it all off my chest and ended it! feel a better person for doing it! cheers.
Thanks ladies.
I know how u feel right now, princess . Do talk about things if it helps you in anyway :-)
Thetababe, he just pushed my hand away and at the same time moved the net book towards himself. then he goes "have u changed the settings?" in a rough tone of voice. i know if i refuse to tak...
hi princess,
It sounds like what my BF said is simply another means of manipulation. he is just speaking his mind but using his mum's name to cover his back.
The most recent instance has been the christmas subject, he got me a net book to replace my old laptop. but that too came with surprises!
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