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you are all right, it all

Wed Jan 27 2010 - 07:09 am Commented in Relationships : is he caring or controlling?!

you are all right, it all about the word 'control'. thats why its impossible for people like them to let go. right now, i am blanking his messages but the last thing he said was he will still be keeping the offer open towards me! like i am dying to take it!he still thinks we may have a chance together but i know thats not the case. so far i haven't replied to any of this, just totally ignored him.
they make it sound as if we are obliged to remain friends with them, but i know its a bad... more

hi princess, i am aware he

Tue Jan 26 2010 - 02:52 pm Commented in Relationships : is he caring or controlling?!

hi princess, i am aware he tried to weaken me but i have realised that that he is bad news. at last i have managed to tell him straight that i dont want to be with him, he is free to move on.all last week he tried calling me, inviting himself to my home one evening, tried to kiss me but i clearly told him he was over whelming and its finished now. he tried the guilt inducing trick by saying i was unfair to him!! i am stronger than before and have decided to ignore all his texts and calls if... more

hi princess, thats not all.

Fri Jan 22 2010 - 01:38 pm Commented in Relationships : is he caring or controlling?!

hi princess, thats not all. when i made it clear to him that we are over and he is free to move on he didn't see me for 2 days. then he appeared suddenly and asked me to help him find him someone nice!! i know he has got the cheek to say that to me. He even said if i know a friend of mine who maybe interested and looking to be in a relationship. i couldn't believe what i heard. so clearly its not about me, its all about ego, control and as long as he has got someone not necessarily me. what... more

i know he can't change just

Tue Jan 19 2010 - 02:36 am Commented in Relationships : is he caring or controlling?!

i know he can't change just like that especially his major negative traits. it seems like he is stuck in his ego or perhaps jealousy! he knows about other guys approaching me...

hi all, i was away on

Mon Jan 18 2010 - 06:32 am Commented in Relationships : is he caring or controlling?!

hi all,
i was away on holidays for last 3 weeks. just got back and guess what he is still chasing me now but with an engagement ring this time!! his mum has been on the phone to me. he has been leaving voice mails, constantly crying! i have told him as it is but he wont get it.he wants me to re-consider him but i dont want to fall into a trap again. he simply isn't right for me and my kid. not sure how to get rid of him for good!

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