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Widow Mom, DO
Widow Mom,
DO NOTHING!!!!
Nothing at all.
No response.
They'll start to fish at this time, and the best thing to do is ignore.
Just enjoy the fact that he's thinking of you and he's not getting anything in return. No satisfaction. He can't get no satisfaction. Just like the song says. Rolling Stones!
Good for you that you've made plans for Christmas night! Enjoy yourself and don't give it another thought!
XOXO,
Annalisa
Kat -- Way to go!!!! There is
Kat -- Way to go!!!! There is definitely life after N/C!!!!
Saucy -- Of course he was going to make it to Christmas! I told you so!!! I just knew it, and I knew he'd contact you to tell you so!!!!
Guitar Guy contacted me twice last night and again this morning. He hadn't contacted me since the week I met Beer Guy and I told him NO to him asking me out. I hadn't heard boo from him, and suddenly two e-mails last night and one this morning. Fishing for Christmas. Sad. Pathetic.... more
Sophie, I'm so sorry! He
Sophie, I'm so sorry! He wrote "You're 44 you should know better."
Did you state that you're 44, or did he just put that because he knows your age?
Just seems too coincidental.
In any case, he has moved on. You have GOT to move on too.
No, these situations rarely work. Men going through a divorce are looking for a bridge relationship. You were the bridge.
Now use him as a bridge to a better man.
DO IT Sophie.
Get out of this... more
Speaking of rotations -- I
Speaking of rotations --
I was on the phone last night with my alcoholic "step-husband" (as I call him)... the ex-boyfriend whose daughter lives with me. We're still best friends, as much as I hate to admit it. Nobody knows me as well as this guy does.
So we were on the phone last night and he told me he's in therapy still (has been for a few years) and his therapist is forcing him to "Annalisa Date." (That's what he calls rotation dating).
He used to chastise me about... more
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I'm really enjoying Beer Guy.
I'm really enjoying Beer Guy. So far, so good.
Today we were talking on the phone and he told me to check out his Facebook wall if I wanted a laugh. He said he changed his relationship status to "In a Relationship" and he was getting all kinds of cute comments from people and some were funny. He said he didn't expect me to confirm the relationship if I didn't want to advertise it on my wall for privacy reasons.
Know what? I did confirm it and I thought it was great. I think... more