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Well Notquite I can remember

Wed Oct 21 2009 - 09:13 pm Commented in Relationships : should I stay or should I go now.....???

Well Notquite I can remember the days and the finger pointing of my "past" husband...we would "talk" and the finger would be pointed directly at me regardless of the subject.

Good that he is willing to go to counselling...we tried that also and then I began going myself to figure out me and what was going on with me.

My "past" husband was very very controlling due to his insecurities and anger issues which of course he blamed on me all the time.

Just thought I would FYI... more

Thank you!!! I am tossing

Wed Oct 21 2009 - 12:47 am Commented in Relationships : Why can I NOT let go of my insecurites...

Thank you!!!

I am tossing back and forth on what to do and probably won't decide until I am actually on the phone with him what I will say.

I truly appreciate all the responses!

K203 I agree to the extent

Tue Oct 20 2009 - 08:09 am Commented in Relationships : Why can I NOT let go of my insecurites...

K203 I agree to the extent that I usually have plans that surround my kids, friends and time on my own...I do have a very busy exciting life but for this weekend I want no plans and want to tell him that to see if he asks me to come visit him, but I do not want to "offer" to come for a visit. (hence the game playing question)

I won't be seeing him for another three or four weeks if I don't go this weekend cause all my other weekends are already booked up!! So, it's this weekend or... more

Well this is something I can

Mon Oct 19 2009 - 11:44 pm Commented in Relationships : should I stay or should I go now.....???

Well this is something I can comment on...I cannot tell you what to do but only share my experience, as this is definitely a life changing time you are going through!!

The last year of my marriage was absolute hell, I went from trying and thinking I still loved my husband to absolute disgust with his behaviour which included anger, selfishness, and bullying. I have thought and thought about how unhappy I was and how it was affecting my children...it this day my children are still... more

Thanks SZ for the reply and

Mon Oct 19 2009 - 11:15 pm Commented in Relationships : Why can I NOT let go of my insecurites...

Thanks SZ for the reply and yes it is so true I am looking for the "label" at this time...and want it to come from him...LOL

This weekend is the "free" weekend with no kids for me and he is away at work. I want so much to offer to come and see him but have decided that it would be best when we talk to let him know that I am free and have no plans and see what transpires...is this game playing?

I don't know what to do and want to see what he has to offer but then again if I... more

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