Well Notquite I can remember the days and the finger pointing of my "past" husband...we would "talk" and the finger would be pointed directly at me regardless of the subject.
Good that he is willing to go to counselling...we tried that also and then I began going myself to figure out me and what ...
Thank you!!!
I am tossing back and forth on what to do and probably won't decide until I am actually on the phone with him what I will say.
I truly appreciate all the responses!
K203 I agree to the extent that I usually have plans that surround my kids, friends and time on my own...I do have a very busy exciting life but for this weekend I want no plans and want to tell him that to see if he asks me to come visit him, but I do not want to "offer" to come for a visit. (hence...
Well this is something I can comment on...I cannot tell you what to do but only share my experience, as this is definitely a life changing time you are going through!!
The last year of my marriage was absolute hell, I went from trying and thinking I still loved my husband to absolute disgust with...
Thanks SZ for the reply and yes it is so true I am looking for the "label" at this time...and want it to come from him...LOL
This weekend is the "free" weekend with no kids for me and he is away at work. I want so much to offer to come and see him but have decided that it would be best when we t...
We started seeing each other last April and sometime this past summer had the "exclusive" talk and closer to the end of summer had the "feelings" talk and this past weekend I had the "feelings" breakdown!! LOL
We do not talk to each other everyday and basically I think I can accept that. I know ...
Well Ebonee...you certainly read it spot on with insight beyond what I wrote...WOW...thank you.
Wise, Jess and Aud...thanks for the comments also!!
I am truly trying to find the Goddess within which usually is not far until the "insecurities" start returning then it's that lost little girl so ...
Jess,
Truer words never spoken...wow...needed to read that today!!
Thanks!
Have dealt with during the week no calls from boyfriend, have talked to him about it and posted it on here a couple of times...I will accept this,I know he is busy, and I know that I can call him if I want but in my head want him to call me(finally figured that one out).
He's home for the weekend...
Little update...went out with friends and had a few drinks...MR. Man decides to call and I decide it is probably not best to talk to him at this time.
Well he proceeded calling me at home and on my cell a few times throughout the night and this morning but it was way too early to get up and answ...
