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Fri Nov 20 2009 - 12:23 am Commented in Understanding Men : I don't know who he truly is- the husband with 10 years of marriage

Thank you all for sharing your thought. My delima is I have a 6 month old baby girl. He said he loves her very much and wants to see her everyday. So every morning, we got on video Skype so they can see each other. And ofcourse, I'm there to hold the baby. The counselor that I met told me that I should think about my baby, if I want the best for her, that for her to have a father in life or not. I do not know what is the right thing to do...

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Wed Nov 18 2009 - 11:49 pm Commented in Understanding Men : I don't know who he truly is- the husband with 10 years of marriage

Thank you Smiler101 and Trace.
I just had a long talked with my husband via a long distant phone call. We touched all issues. He sounds very sincere to me and kept saying that he want us to be back together. He agreed with all of my conditions about him not doing this and that in order to rebuild our relationship. One thing he could not answer is what was the true cause that leaded to the affairs. He said it was not my fault but he does not know what cause him to did that. I told him... more

I don't know who he truly is- the husband with 10 years of marriage

Wed Nov 18 2009 - 10:58 am Posted in Understanding Men

I'm looking for help. We have been M for 10 years. He cheated me with his ex g in my house while I was out if the country and was pregnant with our first child. I did not know about this until 7 months later when using his cell phone. He swear that it ended month ago and that he only loved me and would do whatever it take to regain my trust. It took me 3 weeks to tell him that I would forgive him and agreed to move forward. more

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