Ever wish you could know for sure whether a guy has long-term potential before getting too emotionally involved or wasting too much time?
Wonder what the secret is to making that new relationship move toward marriagewithout freaking him out and sending him running?
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YOU’RE the One
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Dear friend,
How many of these all-too-common dating frustrations have YOU experienced:
I’m older than I ever thought I would be before finding “The One”
I don’t know how to move our relationship toward marriage without scaring him off
I’m sick of investing months or years dating a man only to have it end
I know I’m ignoring red flags about my guy, but I don’t want to break it off and start dating all over again
I love him but I don’t know how to prove that I am “The One” for him
I’ve spent years looking for “The One” with no luck… Maybe it’s time I just settled on someone so I don’t end up alone
If you can relate to even ONE of these statements, then this could be the most important letter you’ll ever read.
That’s because I’m about to show you how to ditch those feelings of helplessness and hopelessness and take control of your love life once and for all!
The secret is learning to understand how a man’s mind works with regards to commitment. I’ll show you how to get inside his head, and once you do, you’ll instantly be able to assess:
If he’s willing and able to make a long-term romantic commitment (at all, and, more specifically, with YOU)
Whether or not he’s the kind of guy with whom you should invest your time
Exactly how to prove that you’re the woman he can’t live without
How to alleviate his fears about commitment (all men have them) so that he’s ready to take the plunge quickly and willingly
No more worrying about wasting precious time on the wrong guy, creating emotional baggage from relationships gone wrong, or racing against a ticking biological clock to find your lifelong mate.
If you’re ready for a serious relationship, I can show you how to take the confusion and guesswork out of making it happen.
I’ve spoken with hundreds of women who feel their dating lives are at a dead-end. A lot of them think that’s just the way it is; that winning at the love game is purely a matter of luck and theirs hasn’t been great.
I’ve told those women personally – as I’ve told thousands of others through my eBooks, interviews and coaching programs – that they don’t have to leave their happiness to chance. They can create their own dating destiny, starting right now.
And so can you.
To learn exactly how to do it, read on…
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Hey, there’s nothing wrong with casual dating. When you’re young, carefree and in that “I just want to get out, meet cool people and have some fun” mindset, you can date a different guy every weekend and not be too concerned with whether any one of them will call again or materialize into a real relationship.
But let’s face it: There comes a time in life when your priorities change and you’re not just playing the dating game for fun anymore.
You’ve been dating for a while, you’ve gotten some experience under your belt (some good relationships along with your share of disappointments and broken hearts – am I right?), and not only do you now know for a fact that you want a serious, committed relationship…
…but you also know what kind of guy you want that relationship with. Suddenly, the emotional stakes of dating are much higher.
You want to find him – fast – and know for sure how to make it last.
As women, we would never admit it out loud, but as soon as we decide that we’re ready for long-term love, there is no such thing as casual dating anymore.
Even when you’re having fun with a new guy, there’s still that tick…tick…tick of a clock in the back of your mind.
You may find yourself thinking any number of the following thoughts…
“What if I spend a lot of time dating this man and it turns out he’s not really “The One?” I’ll have to start over again and I just don’t have that kind of time. If only there was a quick way to know what kind of potential he has before I get too involved…”
“Am I wasting my time in this relationship? I don’t want to push him, but I don’t want to “just date” indefinitely if he has no intentions of taking things to the next level.”
“This guy really seems to be “The One.” How do I make sure things move along at a quick and steady pace toward marriage without pressuring him and making him freak out and run away?”
“It’s hard enough to find a decent guy in the first place, so what’s the big deal if there are a few little red flags?”
“I’m getting older and after years of dating it seems like “The One” might not be out there for me. Should I lower my standards and just settle for this guy? After all, he seems nice enough…”
“How can I protect myself from falling in love with someone who won’t love me back?”
“How can I discern whether he sees me as marriage material without bringing up marriage in the first place? I know that the “M” word alone freaks guys out.”
He wants to spend the rest
of his life with me!
“I met a wonderful man who I somehow knew after the first date was a keeper. I immediately started applying your techniques and guess what?
Bingo!
We have only been dating a few short months but quickly became exclusive and just this past weekend he told me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and is diligently making future plans for us. Again, thank you!”
--Diane
Now what if I told you that you could spare yourself weeks, months – even years – of wasting time on the wrong relationships…
…And that you could find Mr. Right and put your relationship on the fast-track to lifelong commitment by learning how to answer the following two questions:
1.
How do I know if he’s “The One” and
2.
How can I show him that I’m “The One” for him?
If you’ve been dating for any length of time, you know just how frustrating it can be when you’re in the dark about one or both of those critical questions. You’re having a great time with him and thinking “this could really be IT” and then out of the blue it all falls apart and you’re back to Square One. Only you’re months or years older and no closer to your goal of finding that lifelong partner.
You Could Wait Around for Your Guy to Decide Where Your Relationship is Headed… OR You Could Learn How to
Take Control and Show Him
If you’re like most women I know (and, believe me, I’ve gotten to know a lot of women since I started writing books about dating), you’ve probably had one or more of these unfortunate experiences while trying to sort out those critical questions:
“We exchanged phone numbers, then he didn’t call and I didn’t know what to do. Did I miss catching Mr. Right?”
“We were dating for years before I realized he had no intention of making a commitment. I don’t have that kind of time to waste again!”
“I didn’t think I was coming on too strong in our first few dates but I must have been sending the wrong messages because they turned out to be our last dates, too.”
“I thought we were moving toward something serious and really wonderful. It took me way too long to realize that he thought we were just casually dating.”
“There was only one thing that worried me about him, and I just knew he would change. At least I thought he would change…”
“I had no idea how to figure out whether he was thinking about marriage without scaring him away.”
“I tried to be everything he wanted in a woman, but it was like he didn’t even notice.”
“I really want to enjoy the beginning stages of dating, but I’m so concerned about possibly wasting time on the wrong guy. I know that men I date can sense when I’m too serious, too quickly, and it’s turning them off…But, hey, it’s not like I have the luxury of dating “just for fun” anymore.”
It DOES work
“Yes! Yes! Yes! It does work and thank you again for your experience and knowledge. Every woman needs to follow your approach.
I now have a loving man ready to take things to the next step - slowly and at his pace (or so he thinks) and he knows that he has made that decision himself, not been pressured into it.”
--Happy Kiwi girl from New Zealand
These are just a few of the many situations where doing the one right thing could make it all dazzlingly clear, but doing any of the many possible wrong things would leave you alone once again.
The good news is that there is a way for you to know in advance how to handle these and the many other difficult and seemingly unpredictable situations.
The first conversation, the first date, the first doubts, the first fight, the first time you meet his mother…. Things could happen at all of these times, and almost any other time, that determine whether you’re on your way to the altar or ready to hang it up and start looking again. You need to be prepared.
Do you feel like you’ve screwed up so many relationships that you’re leery of trying another one (but you know deep down that you want to be in a good one)?
Are you worried you’ll fall in love with someone who won’t love you back?
Did you ever have a boyfriend who treated you so well that it came as a total shock when you realized after months (or, God forbid, years) that there was a fatal flaw either in him or in your relationship?
Wouldn’t it be great to have the tools to dig out this essential information before you invest your precious time and emotions on something that’s destined to fail?
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“How to Know if He’s ‘The One’ –
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I’ve compiled a list of the most burning, real-life questions from women like you – facing dating situations just like yours – and answered them one by one, revealing practical strategies and clear advice that you can use in your life right away.
Not only will you get insight into your most baffling dating dilemmas, you’ll also get step-by-step solutions to them as well as scripts to help you know what to say (or NOT say) in those complicated situations.
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What you should and should not do when the phone hasn’t rung for three days after you exchanged numbers with a guy who seemed like he had major potential (and you don’t want to risk letting him get away).
3 things you can do to encourage a man to ask you out, and 4 things you could do that would send him running for cover.
How to find out without asking if a guy is married, involved or available.
Why flirting can be an essential part of Dating Without Drama, and how to do it effectively.
What that hunky guy is really thinking – and feeling – when you’re just dying for him to ask you out, and how you can turn his feelings to your advantage.
6 things that must be in place for a long-term relationship to succeed, and what to do if it looks like they’re not.
3 areas where the two of you must either be on the same page or be willing to compromise to get there.
Why you should absolutely not freak out if he sees you without makeup, with messy hair, or both.
The Desirable Dozen – my exclusive list of qualities a guy needs in order to be Boyfriend Material – and lots of sneaky tips to help you find out if he has them.
How to look beyond the happiness of a boyfriend who treats you well so you can explore the things that will really predict whether you’ll have a successful relationship.
5 strong clues that a man is ready for a serious relationship, maybe with you.
3 critical things to look for in a relationship, and why you should run for the hills if you don’t find them.
Why you should be a little bit worried if you’ve never had a fight with your boyfriend.
What compatibility really means, and how much of it you really need for a successful relationship or marriage.
How to tell him he’s doing something wrong for you without upsetting him.
Why the harder you try to hang onto a guy, the faster you may drive him away, and how turning some of that love on yourself can make it all work out for the best.
The 2 critical insights guaranteed to help women who find it easy to get boyfriends but hard to keep them.
The most important thing you can do to show him that you’re THE ONE, and what to do if he still doesn’t see it.
You’ll learn all these valuable tips and more as you listen to questions from real women from my Inner Circle – women whose lives and concerns are just like yours – and my answers including detailed advice on how to make the ideas work for you.
We’ll talk about touchy situations that could make a relationship stronger OR cause it to crash and burn – depending on how you handle them – and you’ll hear the exact words and strategies to use. I guarantee you’ll be able to relate to so many of these situations it’ll feel like a one-on-one session with a private dating coach.
I’m Paige Parker, the author of the bestselling guide to relationships, “Dating Without Drama – the Essential New Rules to Help You Understand Men and Succeed at the Dating Game.”
Hundreds of thousands of women around the world read my “Dating Dish” email newsletters every week and use my eBook as their personal handbook for drama-free dating.
I also help women get inside the male mind in “You Ask, Men Answer,” my revealing interview series with real men, as well as help them transform their love lives step-by-step with my 30-day “Breakup Breakthrough” coaching program.
I’ve received thousands of letters from women all over the globe who say the advice I’ve given them has helped them:
get out of dead-end dating situations
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build healthy relationships
get engaged and become happily married after years of worrying they’d never find “The One!”
My mission as a dating coach is to teach women a simple, straightforward and sane approach to dating so they can find – and keep – a healthy, loving relationship. My new rules for modern dating take the mystery out of understanding men and encourage women to play the dating game without manipulation.
Your advice has changed
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“Your advice has changed my outlook on life and dating.
It has helped me to realize that my happiness is as important as the man's. Oh Paige! You sure are a relationship genius!!!”
--E.F.
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How to Know if He’s “The One”:
Who makes that first call after you first meet? Is it true that if he's really interested, he will call me?
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How to show him YOU Are “The One”:
How can you get a man to commit to you?
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With the next guy I met I followed every one of your tips. I thought I was going to die not calling him!
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In case you’re still debating, here’s a sample of some of the amazing lessons you'll learn in my 'Is He The One' coaching program:
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Paige explains how to know if he’s "The One" after a short period of time. [58 sec]
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Find out what to do if your man is not committing. [1 min 4 sec]
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Paige talks about why you can't neglect your own needs in a relationship to please a man . [56 sec]
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Find out why women stay in relationships even when they know the man is not "The One." [49 sec]
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“I just wanted to say thank you for all of your great tips.
My mother [started following your advice] about two years ago. She'd been single for almost 10 years. Within a month, she met a man, followed all of your tips, and they've been married for a year now.
After she met him and all of your tips worked so well she told me to [start following your advice]. I always had lots of dates, but nothing ever went too far. I was just doing things all wrong.
With the next guy I met I followed every one of your tips. I thought I was going to die not calling him!
But I held out and we've been together a year and a half and are getting married! Honestly, I credit you with all of our happiness!”
--Amber, San Jose, CA
“Dear Paige,
Success!
I was single for about 2 1/2 years but for the last year I've been Dating Without Drama which is SO MUCH FUN!
I found your advice to dilemmas that could have easily been mine (every time!) invaluable. Which is why I feel I need to share my story.
Just before Christmas I bumped into someone I hadn't seen for years. There was an attraction back then but neither one of us said anything, but this time after your words of wisdom we talked, met up, started dating, and in April he took me away and PROPOSED!!!
(Of course I said yes.)
We are very happy and enjoying life together, and I don't feel like I need him to complete me which was my problem in previous relationships.
I have recommended your approach to other single friends hoping they get out of it what I did. I still use your tips to enhance my relationship.
Thank you Paige, if it wasn't for you I think I would have spent my singledom wallowing.”
--Miriam, UK
“I am totally loving your advice.
I am engaged to a wonderful man. Before I followed your approach we were fighting for months regarding his ex girlfriend. He put the wedding on hold because I honestly became so insecure and crazy. He has absolutely no feelings for her but I put it into my head that he did and you can imagine the fights and jealousy and harmful words that have been said.
I guess my breaking point came the day he turned around and said to me, "I love you and I have tried to give you everything in this world to make you happy and secure. What is wrong with you? If you continue like this I cannot be with you anymore."
So I started looking at myself and realised it was not him, it was me and my past. So I started following your advice.
I have started talking to him about so many other things apart from us (work, etc) and actually LISTENING to his answers. I started going out with my girlfriends more and doing all the things I love and used to do at the start of our relationship.
Can I just say the change is AMAZING.
He wants to be around me ALL THE TIME... can't get enough of me. We talk for hours. It seems the second I stopped focusing all my attention on why we were not working and just eased up and rebuilt MY CONFIDENCE everything changed.
The wedding is all back on track!!!
And last night he told me that he has noticed a change and I am "that girl" again... the one he first met who was carefree, happy and comfortable in her own skin. The girl who put him under a spell...
So thank you. Your advice is amazing.”
--Randi
“Hello Paige,
You are absolutely right! I'm 62 years old (or young), widowed 5 years ago and after my mourning period, I started dating again.
I met a wonderful man 4 years younger who has been divorced for 14 years. He just proposed to me! I was stunned.
He said "it's not hard to find someone else I can live with but it's quite rare to find someone I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT. I've been wanting to find this person and it's YOU."
He gave me the diamond and I said yes! We'll be getting married this year and things are just going great.
Indeed, when a man thinks and believes you're a catch, there is no prodding needed, he knows right away and will do whatever it takes to keep you. I've been enjoying your advice.
Keep up the great work, girlfriend!”
--Tess
“Hi Paige,
I want to thank you because every time I take your advice I’m doing the right things.
I finally got a boyfriend and last night he asked me to marry him! I’m so pleased that you have given such great advice. Thank you.”
--Harriet
“Dear Paige,
I just wanted to thank you for all the advice on Dating Without Drama. I was already in a relationship when I found your site but I was in need of help.
My guy was definitely in the pull-back mode and I couldn't understand what was happening. The first few months he was so attentive and always talking about us in future terms and then all of a sudden not calling for days and talking about space and independence. I was so confused and getting very insecure and saying and doing all the wrong things.
But then I found your site and read all the commentary from the other women going through a lot of the same kinds of stuff I was going through.
After reading all your advise and your books I realized it was perfectly alright for him to be reassessing our relationship and that if he needed to think things through it was okay too.
But the pulling back was killing me and I was only making it worse by my insecurities and questioning him at every turn so I started doing the things I did before we started dating like my exercise routine and visiting my friends and just not being totally available all the time. I stopped calling him also. I needed to see if he was really as committed as I was.
Well it worked! He started calling to tell me he missed me. He started planning dates in advance to make sure I was available. Now he is talking "future" and saying the three words I longed to hear, yes, he loves me.
Thanks to your advise, I am not insecure anymore and no longer worry. We are individuals that have come together for love and romance and I am living the good life and will do so for as long as possible.
We talk about every aspect of our relationship now and we understand each other so much better now. We also spend most every night at either his house or mine, can't seem to see each other too much!
In one of our talks he actually brought up the marriage talk. It's only been 5 months but everything is going so well now. Thanks again Paige!”
--Martha
“Thank you, Paige, for being there with your wisdom as to how men think and what they are looking for in a woman.”
--Brenda M., CA
“Hi Paige,
Thank you for a thought provoking approach. I am in my early fifties, and after my last divorce, I began to make a life for myself.
I had begun dating only after taking a year to date myself. Even then most guys would only be in the picture for a month 3-4 dates, then drop out of the picture saying they were scared.
About the time I was just going to date myself and choose to be happy with the life I had created for myself, I threw out a message, very short on line to two guys who were fairly local. And did not even go back to look if they had answered.
One Saturday morning this message came up as I was checking my email. I ignored it and they kept coming, He finally convinced me to have lunch, and it has been wonderful now for over 2 months. He wanted commitment right away and calls daily.
Life is good and your advice has really helped me see I don't have to settle for junk. There are good men out there looking for us.”
--Deborah
“Dear Paige,
I started Dating Without Drama in April. I was a mess when I [started following your advice]: needy, emotional and pitiful.
2 months later and I cannot keep the guys away! I could have a date for the next two weeks straight if I wanted. They love the confidence and one even told me that he loves how "independent" I am... yeah 2 months ago I was definitely "co-dependent!"
I've read many books with yours being the last and most profitable on dating. I only have two nights per week without my daughter and both those nights every week are filled with dates - I've even gone on 2 per night sometimes!!
I'm still looking for the one but the journey is so much fun now! Thank you!”
--Kim
“Hi Paige,
As I sit here, am at work so I cannot allow the tears to roll down my cheeks the way they want to. They are not tears of sadness though, but tears of cleansing.
For the last four years I was lost in a relationship, I must say that we were both to blame for the drama. I was unsure how to love and trust and he wanted to show me in a controlling instead of loving way.
Its over!!!!, I thought I would never be able to make it through this, but thanks to you, I am wonderful, I feel great. Most importantly Paige.........I LOVE MYSELF. Something I forgot how to do.
I do hope that one day we could fix ourselves and move on to have a great relationship, but if that never happens, I would be fine. One door closes and six more opens, but you have given me the tools to walk through those doors as a confident woman.
It is surprising how much we as women, as smart and beautiful as we are, forget to take care of ourselves, because we are seldom taught how to.
Thank you for taking up such a difficult challenge, but you are changing the lives of women everywhere. I have forward your emails to every woman I know, and will continue to do so as needed.”
--Nell
“Dear Paige,
I wish I had discovered your advice before I had starting dating the guy I was trying to be with. He has completely pushed me away.
I'm pretty angry with myself about this now after reading all this. I had no idea what I was doing would be so detrimental.
I definitely will not make the same mistake again. Thank you for the great advice.”
--Melissa, Wichita Falls TX
“Dear Paige,
I want to tell you that before following your advice, I was very skeptical and hesitant not knowing if it would really meet any of the expectations and needs that I have.
For goodness sake, it took me near 30 days of reviewing you're your e-mails before I finally decided to buy. I have one word - WOW!!!
It has been an eye opener regarding my own personal characteristics and old stinking thinking if you will. Some material really hit on some core issues, but because of the way that you present the information in your caring nature it hit me softly.
Thank you Paige. I am grateful for whatever it took for you to make the decision to make all this happen for yourself to share with the rest of us.
As for those who are skeptics like myself, I promise you this is the better buy that will change you in your life if you’re ready and willing. Thank you again Paige, keep the good stuff coming!!”
--Julia
“Dear Paige,
Thank you for all of your help.
After another dating disaster, I started following your tips. I practiced everything you suggested. A new fellow came into my life and I did not fall into any of my old ways.
He asked me to marry him and I did.
I am so happy. He is wonderful. And he someone that I would probably not have considered had I not followed your advice.”