Hello Goddesses,
Well, the Holiday season is on us again. I was so busy with my fablulous :) life that I really didn't notice.

I have a play going on, I am trying to plan a trip for my 50th birthday in March, I am going to auditions as much as I can. I sing karaoke on the weekends. I am putting in extra hours at my friend's flower shop over the holidays. My plate is actually quite full, and yet....Read more

I broke up with my fiance about four months ago because he began being abusive [mentally and physically], another big thing was he was not faithful and I can go on and on about why it wasn't working out so anyways... Read more

So my last thread was titled Less Faith Less Dissapointment. If you've read that then you know my whole story......things have taken somewhat of a different direction since then however...

I commute back and forth to work everyday..about 45 min....! Lately it has got pretty hard on me and I brought up the conversation of moving in and getting a place with the person in my life that claims he is ready to make a committment with JUST me.....Well this has been going on forever..and everytime i bring it he makes an excuse to not do it....Read more

Just an update for all you chicas who have given me some killer advice over the past couple of weeks.

So.... last week was week one of me not initiating ANY contact.

We had a great weekend ! I even got an "I Love You Baby :)" and while watching House Hunters International I made a comment about how I would love to go to Paris and he commented "I would love to take you there".

I am really trying hard to respect his boundaries, as well as to start setting some of my own. Read more

Although I am not ready to share right now, I thought this would be a subject many have stories to tell about. We'd all love to here your special story. :)

Hi there Ladies (and guys if you care to share),

I'm in a relationship with a man I've known for several months ... recently we decided we want a committed and monogomous relationship ... so far all is well ... I feel we are getting closer all the time.

So here's the situation ...

A male friend of his had booked a cruise in December with another guy. The other guy backed out and my guy has been asked to take his place at a fraction of the original cost.Read more

Im putting my comments here under "relationships" instead of "understanding Men" like i normally do because Im really starting to understand them -- Read more

Me and my partner have been together since Febuaray the 14th 2009, Very romantic right?! Its now the 14th of november 2009 and lately I've been geting very suspicious about missing condoms and other women in his life. We've been argueing a lot lately which doesn't really solve anything because by the end of the night were all lovy dovey anyway. But i hate thinking about the facts of argueing for no reason what so ever and not making a difference in anything at all. which really pisses me off.Read more

Stay tuned...writing this in WORD then will post here.

Has anyone read that book "The Rules"?

From what I hear, some of the advice is pretty archaic...and they actually advise you to never call a man back, even if he calls you.... what is that all about?

Just curious to see what you guys thought about it.

By the way.... I have read:

Dating Without Drama : Awesome !
He's Just Not That Into You: Did anyone really need to be told that if he was married he's just not that into you?
Why Men Love / Marry Bitches: Awesome As Well !! And a major wake up call to some of my worse tendencies.... doormat girl anyone?