Hi.  I contacted a guy on a dating website whose profile I liked.  We emailed, then exchanged mobile numbers and texted each other.  After a few texts, he asked some personal questions: 

- Are you still a virgin .....etc. more

I've got the guy! He pursued me, took me on beautiful dates, left wonderful messages, and started "the talk" himself - saying he wants to be with me!

But now after a week I feel like I've frozen up and I'm worried! I feel as though the chase is over so maybe he won't find me interesting anymore or doesn't find the relationship exciting because he's finally got me. I very much want to me with this person. more

I am with my boyfriend since January things r going really well, but like always my job always seems to be a problem. I am a Soldier in the Army and have to go away a lot.

When im here with him things are ok, wenever i have to go away he just changed. I had to go to England on a course for 6wks things were ok because he came over and we spent a wkend together, however straight after that 6wks I went to Canada for a further 4wks, this is were the problem starts. more

Hi Ladies,

Does anyone's low self-esteem cause problems for them and effect their relationship? I can be so confident and laid back for weeks, then I go through a phase where I feel needy, un-loved and it's causing so many problems, I probably have pushed my partner away. Could anyone tell me if they have gone through this, if so some advice on what you did to change, so I can work on my self-esteem would be great.

Thanks

Hello Everyone,

It's been a while since I last posted and I just need some advice.  Okay...I'm still seeing the same guy...I know I was a little needy and everything after my divorce.  But it's been 2 years since then, and I'm most definately not the same needy person I was before.  more

Hello ladies!  I need support, advise, strength, help. Long story short. I have been dating a man for 3 years and a half years(long distance), 5 hour drive away. He's in his mid-50's, me in my mid-40's. Up until a year ago, things were a bit off and on, roller-coaster with things being great, and then fizzle down. Then back again to fizzle again. Yes, he had been caught lying and seeing other woman the first year and half.  more

I pretty much have my story on my profile , but I guess I can try to fill some others in. in 2006 I got married in 2007 my Dad passed away & in 2009 my Husband passed away at the age of 33yrs old. I have been through alot my whole life but still feel it has all made me a stronger woman to be able to handle everyday life. I was raised Baptist & was always in church & went to a private school. Parents were really stricted on me as a kid growing up but I always got along with my Dad he taught me to fish, to hunt & even to work on cars.

 My live-in bf of 2yrs loves women.  He's the type that gets along better with women than men.  Most of his female friends that he keeps close and that I know personally are stud type lesbians.  My problem is the women that I only know of via snooping are not. Some he has mentioned to me but most he keeps to himself.  He does not show any behavior of dating anyone on the side and for the most part, if I didn't snoop I probably would not suspect anything.  He is very loving, affectionate and still gives me compliments. more

I'm seeing a guy now that I've been talking to on and off for a few months. What has made things really complicated, actually difficult,  is that he works a lot.. and i mean a whole lot. He's very sweet, caring, and considerate and we have the best times together. He owns a company with his brother, and his other job is with the government which requires that he travels (quite often). At first I didn't believe the government job until I saw his equipment etc. more

I've been seeing this guy for just about 5 months. We see each other once a week on average as we both have very busy schedules/travel a lot for work.  I've been great with the no drama - just going with the flow, doing my own life, etc. more