So I've been seeing this guy.. (read post "pregnant and dating"). I have decided in the last couple of days to take a step back and remember that we are not ready for a full-fledged relationship at this point. However, we are great friends at this point and I'd still like to have regular contact with him to continue to build the friendship. Last time I saw him, we had a conversation about our relationship and where it was going. I had gotten a bit insecure in the moment and made him feel pressured without realizing what I was doing.Read more

Me and fredrik are dating eachother now for almost 1 month.
we started to talk on the facebook by chance.
after even few days we were feeling so close to eachother and we were talking almost 10 hours per day.
so i dumped a guy that i had at that time for him. jus after 5 days he asked me if i want to c him in life
and i answered yes. he is living in another city which is 3 hours far from mine. however he came
at the weekend and we met. he stayed at my place for almost 3 days and everything was just so more than perfectRead more

Hi All....just thought I'd throw this out there for comment. I found it quite interesting but think I'll reserve my own opinions for now. K

Carolyn Hax: Who should pay for dates is only part of the question

By Carolyn Hax
Friday, March 12, 2010

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Hello Ladies. Looking for some experiences on this (if you should have any).

Has anyone ever been friends with a man, then realize one day that you may have fell for him?

Perhaps you never got together because one (or both) of you was attached. Perhaps you weren't even that fond of him in the beginning, but eventually developed a friendship, then one day out of no where realized you could have feelings for him?

If so has it ever developed into a relationship?

Hi i've been dating this guy for a month now and everything has been great until now. I met his brother, his daughter and he told his mom about me. We've had the are you my girlfriend talk and not wanting to date more than one person @ a time. Then his friend comes to stay with him for couple weeks to get an apartment, and he starting being stressed. He made plans to spend day with me for the next day and then canceled because he said he needed alone time. I said no problem and explained that he asked to see me, that I wasnt asking to see him.Read more

So this will get a lil' edgy and long.but this is my life story.I have had 3 breakups within the last 6 years or so.all ended up basically with cheating on me.and then say I'm the crazy one.but u only act on how u feel.I was crazy in love with all of them.I have a big heart.I love with all my heart even sometimes they have done wrong to me.well this guy I I've been with I would say has been a lil' different fromthe rest of them.first he's 21 and Im 28.I basically known him all my life then new years 08 it just happened.his background is Lebanese he has 4 sisters that one of them is my friends.Read more

I am eight months pregnant, been through a rollercoaster of emotions and circumstance since the beginning of my pregnancy. The father is no longer a part of my life and, while I am not fully ready to date, I have met someone who I have been seeing and getting to know for the last few months. We have grown so close that I can consider him one of my best friends. Someone who i can call, crying in the stairwell at work from stress (true story) and someone I can talk to about ANYTHING! He also confides in me TONS and has invited me into his life more than he lets most people.Read more

Im jus wondering why guys do that? like the man in my life - things are so great and he is wonderful makes me feel like ive never been made to feel by any man ive met in the past
BUT he was telling me abt this chic at office who likes him and everyones been telling him about it but he had shown her a pic of me and told her he is dating me to make it clear he is unavailable to her or something like that...
so do they do it to feel in demand or make ya feel a bit J :D
any thoughts....

So I'm turning 30 in a couple of months. I have no boyfriend and no prospects. I've taken a break from dating that has lasted about 2 months now.

I need to hear that there are good guys out there. I KNOW there are, but please tell me some success stories. Because I'm starting to feel pretty sad and depressed and starting to worry that it isn't gonna happen for me. Read more

Improve your mind—and your chances
By Margot Carmichael Lester

March is National Optimism Month, so why not use these 31 days to improve your worldview and feel hopeful that you can get what you want in terms of love and romance? We asked a panel of experts for their advice on how you can improve your outlook, feel happier and, thus, better your chances at finding the love you want. Here are some tips: Read more