Hello, I need an advice. I have met this guy through a dating site, we have been dating for a month now, seeing each other about once a week. In this month though, he hasn't got any closer at all.he seems very happy and into me when we are together, but never calls me to ask me how I am, or even texts, if not to arrange a date (I have NEVER texted him first though). i dont know where this all is going, we havent talked of exclusivity or whether we are both emotionally avalaible and happy with one other.Read more

So, another job rejection letter arrived yesterday - I am 48 years old and struggling to find permanent work. I am feeling such a failure. I know I am a good person. I have some temp work (not particularly well paid), I volunteer, I am bright, educated, hard-working and knowledgeable. Yet I have no home of my own, crap job prospects and a terrible work record (my abusive marriage took its toll). In a decent economy I would be in a job by now, but after a year of applying, applying, applying for jobs, going for endless interviews, I still get knocked back.Read more

please ladies help me understand this.
couse i have no idea what he means by this.

I'd like to know how much of the Dating Without Drama advice really applies to someone like me (divorced with a child at age 48).

In reality, how much time do I have to "date by the rules"? Is it realistic to wait for a man in his late 40's & 50's to call me? Should I not call him at least once again when he doesn't return my call?

It seems that a lot of the advice is better suited for those in thehir 20's who have time on their side to play with and not a lot of experience.

OK - but here's the problem. I'm 39. I don't have time for this waiting game bs. I understand that it won't work out if I do the pursuing. I want to have another baby within the next year or 2 max (i.e., with my own egg). How long do I waste on this bull**** before just admitting defeat and going to a sperm bank? I have no control over whether I find the people I meet attractive or whether they find me attractive.Read more

Hello My Girl Power Pals,Read more

Have you ever encountered anyone like that? Seriously if there was a Dating With Drama poster girl for what NOT to do, my best friend would be it lol! But yet she still manages to snag guys that actually want to be in relationships with her. She's been with her current bf for almost a year (which is the longest relationship she's had in almost two years). He gets really annoyed with her behavior yet he still adores her and treats her like she's the best thing since slice bread.Read more

I JUST met this guy.... Like we talked ALL night on Sunday, slept for 4 hours, then met up in person (we met on a dating site) and talked for another 6 hours.... We ended up making out quite a bit, and then he had to run to work. Read more

no, not DJMan. My post would not have been nearly as calm lol.

Remember Boatman? The one who took me to his sister's lakehouse? We had been seeing each other once or twice a week, he called every day and then suddenly...nothing.

He had just started a new job and had told me he would need to travel the first month or so...I knew that wasn't the reason or he would have continued to call.

A couple of weeks ago he sent me an email joke, I responded that it was funny. Then came the "how have you been?" email. Told him I've been having a great fall.Read more

Hi Paige,Read more