I had a real bad night with him last night, and tonight, I am so mad. I cant stop being mad at not just what happened last night, but so many nights that I have put up with. Does anyone know what its like to be in a turning fog that never sees daylight? that is what it is like with him, I never know, are we on, or are we off? It always seems like its his choice and that I am always waiting like the moon to see is he going to be happy or is he going to be looking for an arguement.Read more

I was dating what I thought was a great guy for 10 months. I suppose you could call him a rebound. I had just been dumped by another guy after a 7 month relationship and my self esteem was at zero. I met the new guy on line. His profile stated that he was separated. He explained that the only reason he hadn't gotten a divorce was for financial reasons. We were exclusive from the beginning. There were little things that irritated me but I decided that as the relationship grew those would go away. After 8 months, I decided it was time to have "The Talk".Read more

I have(had) been seeing my man for 3 months, he is 49 and i am 37. He lives 4-5 hours drive away, so we only really got to see each other every couple of weeks, however this never stopped me from developing feelings for him, we got on really well and there was never a cross word between us.Read more

This probably sounds a little crazy but now I have lost my boyfriend I really feel as if I have lost my chance and messed up big time!

We were together for nearly 2 years and I hadn’t had a steady boyfriend for sometime. He treated me well and would do all he could to help me in any way. I liked and fancied him but wanted to take it slowly to see how it went. However, he fell madly in love with me from day 1, and came on too strong which made me keep him at arms length. Read more

I broke up with my guy tonight. We'd only been together 2 months but it was one of those convoluted ones because both of us had an eye toward a long-term relationship and marriage. I really thought this guy was "it" for me. And it has taken me going through so many jerks and losers to get to this guy.

On one hand, he is smart, funny, educated, a gentleman, treated me well, loved and cared for me, took care of me when I was sick, complimented me and showered me with affection. Read more

Hi girls,
I've been receiving Paige's emails for a couple of years now and love the new website. I thought this would be a good place to kind of anonymously talk about something that won't leave me alone. Everyone is so supportive and helpful here!Read more

Hi Ladies,
I wrote this letter to myself today and wanted to share it with you. It is an accumulation of things I have been thinking and reading lately.

It is now time for you to surrender control. You are only responsible for your own actions, not others’. Their behavior should not make you feel bad. They must deal with their actions and consequences, not you. You cannot be the whole world for everybody. They must be responsible for themselves. Read more

I know that I shouldn't be thinking of him or even wanting him back, but for some reason I do. We were together for four months ( i know, not long enough to be missing him this long), but in those four months I felt like I had found Mr. Right. I can feel it in my heart that he is the one for me. We enjoyed spending time together, we had fun, we felt comfortable around each other and we never argued. He was the first person to believe in me. He thought I could do anything I wanted to do. He made me believe in myself. We would spend about three or four nights together.Read more

So long story short i just officaly ended it with my boyfriend of two yrs a month ago hes 21 I am 20 . I was going threw depression and anxiety the time we were dating and it effected me completely . I was totally that girl who created drama But more in the sense were I was just so insecure .but I didnt see it at the time obviously I just was sick of always being put last in everything and i didnt know how to communicate it untill I would explode.Read more

Hello Ladies,

I dated a guy for over two months. I thought it was blossoming into a relationship. I never discussed my feelings nor his. Finally after after a couple of months we ended up in bed (1 night only). It was great but I played it cool and held on to my emotions. I could sense him pulling away but kept my cool. Read more