I sent this letter to Paige back in November, but thought I would post it here as well, so everyone else could be inspired and encouraged... :)

Hi Paige,Read more

Well, lucky me, after an abusive marriage and divorce, I found myself with another 'chameleon'...you know, the charming and disarming type. It was an On/off, no commitment kind of arrangement for five years(I can't call it a relationship, or it was an imaginary one!) and I spent way too much time and energy in it. Nothing was coming back to me! I can get angry that he was online all the time looking for other 'victims' but the main thing is with DWD, I discovered that I was ALLOWING him to be evasive and make excuses because I felt SECOND BEST and let that happen!Read more

Dear Paige,Read more

If you can find a man worth using it on! No easy feat after age 40.

Wow, I am reeling! I was at a party the other night, and thanks to the new confident energy I'm exuding these days, I have all sorts of men vying for my attention. I had a multitude of men wanting to dance with me and men offering to buy me drinks. I'd be talking to one man, and another would come up to me wanting to chat or to dance.

They just wanna be around me! And it feels great!

Oh, and I'm also getting compliments from women who say things like "Gee, I wish I could be more like you!"

Awesome victory last night. I posted a shorter version of this on another topic just now, but wanted to re-post a more detailed version under Inspiration Stories because I feel so awesome right now.

A little under 2 years ago, I tripped and fell into this really painful FWB situation with this guy I really liked. I did EVERYTHING wrong--spilling out my feelings, chasing him, being needy, calling him, being available all the time, all the no-no's. After he'd gotten his fill sexually, he basically couldn't get away from me quick enough. Read more

Dear Paige,
In your dec 17 dish Alison from Canada in Story #1 talks about telling all 3 of her men that she is playing the field, etc. It is known that some men are very insecure, and I find it fascinating that even one of them would hang around after knowing that she is seeing 2 other men. (put the shoe on the other foot......don't think that would work for me).
I'd love to hear what men in general would think of that.
sylvia
san diego, ca

I cant believe how fundamental your rules are and yet they remain a mystery to most of us before we discover DWD.Read more

Today I am sparkly! Effervescence shines through me. Through my thoughts,emotions and intentions I experience the highest possible reality for myself. I focus on the truth of health and healing and release the illusion of fear. I detach with love. I am grateful for the resolution of any residual fear or worry. I remain open to the creative solution that awaits my acknowledgment.

Namaste~

Smerk ;}

Hey all-

Are you a facebook fan? My friend wrote a hilarious book about online dating. She even used a lot of Paige's advice. The book debuts in three weeks. Help support an unknown author as she journals her online dating experiences.

Kissing Frogs in Cyberspace

Thanks-

Joanie