Hi, Paige.  I did what took guts and here I am...free and living! more

Whoo Hooo Girl!!!!  I heard through the grapevine that "He Popped the Question!!!  Congratulations....I got serious goosebumps when I heard the news.  How auspicious and beautiful!

love'n'light,

Smerk ;)

A month and a half ago, I was in a dead-end relationship with a very noncommittal man who would lead me on and "jokingly" say things like "We're done" and "I dunno" to the point where I didn't know whether to take him seriously if he were to say it again. The last time I talked to him was in early June, in which he seemed open to taking things one day at a time. more

"The Invitation"

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dream
for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon...
I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow  more

Hi out there.  I am just wondering, does anyone have a success story to report re: being in love with a married man who actually gets the divorce he says he is going to and stays with you?  Or are these situations always hopeless?  Please don't laugh.  Thanks.

Hey fellow DWDers

Some of you may have noticed the change in screen name :-)

Yup, on 12 June 2010 I tied the knot with my wonderful guy and I couldn’t be happier!

MM xxx

Paige...
I just finished your book dating without drama! AMAZING.... and so true. Such an eye opener for me. OMG! I have never read anything so on point in my life. Been also reading your helpful dishes for a few months now. I am recommending your book to every woman I know single or in a relationship.  more

A psychic told me a few years back I would not be in a relationship any time soon, because I was not ready. I didn't understand her advice and I began a relationship, only to find I forgot something before I got into the relationship...to love myself. That was the "umm something's missing" part. I started to write all the qualities I wanted in a man, good character, developed integrity, spirituality, trustworthy, a good communicator, one who has work hard on their personal development, is outgoing, educated, emotionally healthy, outdoorsy, great parent, and so on. more

Hiya all.....

I've been considering writing this for a few weeks now, but didn't want to 'tempt fate'.

I posted about 3 months ago in the 'understanding men' section with regards a guy that I had met. There was instant attraction between us & we got on like a house on fire, but one of the first things that he told me was the he wasn't interested in a serious relationship or having a girlfriend. I had just come out of a 4 year relationship prior to this which had ended very badly, so I was more than happy to agree. more

I sent this letter to Paige back in November, but thought I would post it here as well, so everyone else could be inspired and encouraged... :)

Hi Paige, more