Ok....it has finally happened. I am going on the first date in 12 years. I have mixed emotions. I am a bit of a cynic (sp?) after a pretty crappy marriage, so I don't really know what I expect. my question is this....in today's times, there are some real nuts out there. I am not sure that I want any man to know where I live until we get to know each other really well. I have a child to think about after all. We have agreed to have dinner, but how do I go about telling him that I would rather meet him there.Read more

Hi guys. I am new to the forum and have been reading a lot of posts and thought I could really use some good advice. :)Read more

Hello ladies,

I recently went on a date with a guy I met online. Our second date is coming up a week later (tomorrow) and I'm not sure what time we're meeting up. Is it okay if I text him to ask what time our date is so I can get my hair done? He text me yesterday to say "looking forward to seeing you again".

Hello Paige

I met this great guy online, tall dark and handsome and seems really into me. He contacted from a dating site and said I was ' his type'. From there we had one phone call and have been mostly instant messaging. We had on webcam just to see each other.Read more

So my last date was just the night before. On Sunday I was singing and dancing at work. I was so excited and looking forward to my date. We talked on the phone a few times beforehand. Everything felt like it was going to be met with some huge chemistry. He was calling me "hot stuff" all the time. It felt nice to have such a flirty nickname already. But it was met with huge disappointment.Read more

He seemed like a decent guy. We had good conversation. He did ask a lot of questions about "dating" and "relationships" that made me feel a little uneasy. Like he was trying to figure out exactly how I felt so he could decide whether it was worth it to ask me out again. But I didn't really mind. I thought my answers were really articulate. Then we split the bill, which I am not used to doing. I paid with a credit card and he paid with cash. He told me he would cover the tip, because the cash he laid down made it so I was paying for a little bit more of the bill then he was.Read more

So I went to visit my "friend" today. We had, dinner, great sex, and then moved yo the couch and watched a 3 hr movie during which he had his arm around me, hugging/ cuddling the entire time. My question is... Does a guy do that if he is just your FWB? This has been going on for 4 mos, now he's talking about going on vacation together to a warm place during the holidays...

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Hey girlies:) My name is Felicia & I am 19 years old.
I have been with my boyfriend for two years next month.
We have our ups & downs. but we have been together for a long time.
Sometimes, I feel like he doesn't like me. because he doesn't show me any affection. anyway, the whole reason why I am writing is not to talk about that anymore. but next month is our two year annivasary... what should I get him? I don't know what to get him!Read more

we have a thread where we send our ex to uglyville (in break ups), which is really awesome by the way. there should also be a thread where you describe what you want in a guy. a lot of dating coaches say that if you know what you want and have your bounderies, then you will automatically attract that type of guy.
i made a list of the perfect guy last year and guess what! i got him. butttt it didn't work out because i forgot to put 'must be mature, have a social life and know what he wants in life'. my ex had it all, but he wasn't a happy person. so here is my new list.Read more