Revelations From Men

 

Below are revelations from real men on our “You Ask, Men Answer” panel. If you are not a member of “You Ask, Men Answer,” it is our monthly CD series where I ask a panel of 4 amazing guys your most burning dating questions so we can get inside the mind of men.

 

"When I get home from work, I care more that you're excited to see me than if you've shaved your legs."
  - John, 41, speaking about how a woman can keep attraction alive in a long-term relationship.

 

"I'd rather meet a woman AT a bar than ON the bar."
  - Paul, 47, revealing how a woman who acts too drunk and wild can be an instant turn-off.


"If a woman makes my heart flutter, I don't want to wait to see her again. I'll call her the next day."
  - Travis, 23, explaining exactly what makes him get excited about - and want to call - a woman he's just met.

 

"Confidence is SO SEXY!"
  - William, 30, who goes on to explain what a woman can do to send signals that she's confident.

 

"Asking for a woman's number -- even when you have no intention of calling her -- is a socially acceptable way to end a conversation. It happens a lot. It's part of the game."
  - Jason, 28, offering a reason why a woman may never hear from a man, even if he asked for her number.

 

"To me, texts are a method of avoidance. And it goes both ways. If a woman sends one to me, I think that means that the person really isn't focusing on me."
  - Paul, 47, revealing his true feelings about text messaging

 

"I was dating a girl and things were going great. I thought, 'I could really get serious about her.' Then I saw her go totally schitzo on a coat check guy and I never looked at her the same. In fact, I never called her again. It's not just about the way they treat you, but the way they treat others."
  - Noel, 30, explaining how a man can be totally into a woman one day, then completely change his mind overnight.

 

  
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